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It's All Over: The Best News Ever!

Posted by cokohlik, 22 March 2012 · 894 views

Accepted! Dream School!


Dear friends! Before I get into the best news ever, I wanted to say a huge thank you everyone here who has offered a listening ear, support, advice, well wishes, and happy lurking. I could not have gotten through this process with my sanity in tact without you guys! I mean it! :wub:
Now on to the news!

Yesterday, I got what I thought was a "butt call" from the POI at my dream school because there was no message or email. I debated twenty minutes before calling him back, figuring that if it was a mistake, the awkwardness was better than the not knowing.

... I got into my dream school's MA program, fully funded with an incredible stipend ($21k). It is nothing short of a miracle. It barely matters to me that I didn't get into the PhD Program even though that's what I applied for -- I'M GOING TO MY DREAM SCHOOL! The University of Delaware! I consider it to have one of the best Early Modern art history programs in the country. The funding is en par with PhD programs and, although I don't know for sure right now, I can hopefully apply to be in Delaware's PhD program when the time comes.

Those of you who have been following my story know that this is something I thought would never happen, let alone with this truly amazing financial package at my *dream* school... I am so excited for what's in store for my intellect!

I was preparing to bury academia, with this being my last application season, if I ended up getting into a place we wouldn't be able to afford. It was awful. I have never been more insecure about myself and my abilities than I was in these past three months (not even when I was a teenager), and it is something that I thought would destroy my academic self-esteem. But here I am! On the other side, SO excited for what Delaware has for us, and even more excited for the excellent training and preparation I'll receive to be in a (Delaware's?) PhD program in a few years.

There are no words that can describe how incredible this is, even if I've used a lot of them! I cried for half an hour after I found out and nearly missed an important meeting at work, unsure that I could compose myself.

I am sure that my incredibly supportive husband and I will just love it there. We booked a trip to Newark last night, for the week of our wedding anniversary. Who knew that a year after we got married, we'd be on a plane to Newark, Delaware? It's unbelievable! :) I am thrilled (seriously) to be moving from a population of 3 million people to 30,000. I can't wait to get a sweatshirt to wear my school pride! The only bad part about is that Delaware's athletics teams are called the Blue Hens. Hens?! Hens aren't ferocious predators that can beat out other animals or heroes such as Trojans in competitions! But nevertheless, I am so happy to (almost) be a Blue Hen!!!

It's all over. I've made it past the first hurdle, and I can breathe now and think about the PhD program later. To quote my dad's witty remark: "Don't forget to bring your underWARE to DelaWARE," Har. Har. Har. :lol:

I'm just thrilled! I can't wait to start! (By the way, I have no idea when school starts! ;))

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Congratulations!!! I'm completely excited for you!
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Holy crap thats friggin aweeesome!!! Congrats! Btw hens can b pretty damn mean, i have scars on my ankle to prove it lol congrats again!!!
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Congrads!! I hope to be posting similar news soon! I am so happy for you, and thank you for sharing this, you have given me hope. I don't really know your story, but it doesn't matter, this is my second application season too, last year I hit a road block beyond my control that stopped me from getting into school, and I woke up today feeling extra bad becuase of another rjection. You've made me realize its not over yet :) So congrads again and thanks!
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Ahhh I'm so excited for you! Congratulations, after so much stress you deserve this! :) Just shoot me a message if you need any tips/advice on the area, I'm more than happy to help!
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Congratulations! I'm so happy you were accepted! You really deserve this. I hope it is all you want and even more. :-)
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University of Dela...where? Haha - be prepared to hear that joke a lot from your snobby neighbors in MD/VA/DC (that would be me!)

So happy for you cokoholik! You really deserved this.
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CONGRATS!!! So happy for you. I've been following your blogs and am excited to see a good result come out of it. Cheers!!
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Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!

BTW, It's not all over - it's only just begun :)
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Congrats!!! I though being a Gamecock was weird but Blue Hens take the cake. Maybe your mascot can mate with my mascot?
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Congrats! I've been following your blog and loving the analysis. Renaissance art and history have interested me since I spent a summer in Venice. Best of luck in grad school!
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Wow, what a great ending to an incredible couple of months (actually couple of years). Congratulations!!!!! I am very happy for you. You are an inspiration to all of us. I really appreciated your willingnes to be vulnerable. It made me feel that I wasn't crazy, just really committed to my dream. It looks like both of our dreams came true!
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yes! congrats!
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Yay I'm so happy for you!! I've never really commented on your posts but I've read almost all of them, and I've hoped very much that you succeed. Congratulations!
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From one Bruin to another, HUGE congrats. Wait, I think I meant Blue Hen. :-)

The Kermit .gif says it all!
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You guys are the best!! Thank you all so much! Honestly, I wouldn't have kept my sanity without the fine folk here at the GradCafe, and I am so excited to share this new adventure with you via ... the GradCafe! ^_^ I can't believe it! Thank you for encouraging me in many moments of despair and doubt, and for celebrating with me now!
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Congrats!!! I though being a Gamecock was weird but Blue Hens take the cake. Maybe your mascot can mate with my mascot?

What on earth is a Gamecock?! Hehe! I want to google it, but I'm unfortunately too afraid of what will come up at work. ;) YES, let's have them mate, and then their offspring will rule the sports world! :D
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University of Dela...where? Haha - be prepared to hear that joke a lot from your snobby neighbors in MD/VA/DC (that would be me!)So happy for you cokoholik! You really deserved this.

Thank you!

Haha! I am ashamed to say that my Canadian self had to look it up on a map. A few times. :( ;)
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Yes yes YES. And that rockstar fellowship is going to make an excellent line on your CV come PhD app time in just a couple of short years. :D

As far as school mascots go--well, it could always be this. (I'm not jealous, no, not at all...why do you ask?)
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Many, many, many congratulations!
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Yayyy I'm so glad everything finally worked out for you!!
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