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Visit to my new school!

Posted by cokohlik, in Accepted, Me, Grad School 18 April 2012 · 214 views
udel, campus visit, dream school and 1 more...
Hello friends!I'm so excited to tell you all about the wonderful time I had visiting my new school's campus last week. My one year anniversary was Tuesday, and that night (after an incredible day together, of course), my husband and I left LA on a redeye for Newark. We were there for about four days, and it was... an incredible experience. Unf...


Things are starting to become clear

Posted by cokohlik, in Grad School, Me, Accepted 28 March 2012 · 190 views
accepted, transition, moving and 2 more...
Some things are starting to become clear in my new adventure, and some things still remain a mystery.I've been in touch with two graduate students (one is one of my POI's students and one is from hereeee :D) and they've been awesome  answering all my questions and going above and beyond what I would have ever imagined. I feel so much more at e...


Completely unmotivated/writer's block.

Posted by cokohlik, in Writing, Me 16 February 2012 · 74 views
inspiration, motivation, writing
I've been struggling with a lack of motivation lately, especially in   writing for my website . I'm not sure why. Maybe it's because this waiting process has me so anxious that I can't focus, or maybe it's because my fulltime job has kept me focused on "the real world." Whatever it is, I don't like it, and I want to get bac...


Doubt: 2012.

Posted by cokohlik, in Waiting, Me, Grad School 01 February 2012 · 97 views
doubt, waiting, confidence and 2 more...
"I have doubts. I have such doubts."  Sometimes I feel like Meryl Streep's character in Doubt- I feel so sure and so confident, so certain, in my belief in something (myself), and then the unsettling feeling of doubt sweeps in.I'm not sure what it is about this process that is so psychologically affecting. I wish I could exist for the next...


First (Unofficial) Rejection

Posted by cokohlik, in Me, Grad School 27 January 2012 · 87 views
rejection, adcom, welcome weekend
Today I received what I assume is my first (unofficial) rejection. Emory's welcome weekend is in just a few short days (Feb. 2-4) and I wasn't invited. I think this means that I didn't get into the program. That's surprising because my POI and I were an excellent fit and when we spoke in October we got along really well. My POI also told m...


Hello again, waiting period...

Posted by cokohlik, in Application Season, Grad School, Me 12 January 2012 · 61 views

I'm officially in the waiting game for all schools. I've done well to keep in touch with my POIs and I imagine I'll still keep in touch in the coming months as I await decisions. I am hoping for acceptances to be sent out from my top 5 schools around mid-February (and that I am one of the chosen), but based on survey data available on the Grad...


Distractions and forgetful professors

Posted by cokohlik, in Grad School, Application Season, Me 26 October 2011 · 103 views
stress, distractions and 2 more...
I started a new job last Wednesday, so between preparing to leave my old job and starting my new job, I have done nothing with applications in about 10 days. I'm not comfortable with that, but I haven't had time. Further adding to my distraction despair is that two of my letter writers are great with timing and have uploaded nearly all of my lette...


A Proper Introduction

Posted by cokohlik, in Me, Application Season, Grad School 18 October 2011 · 57 views
grad school, application season and 2 more...
I don't think I did an adequate job of introducing myself in my first entry, other than to say that this is my second application season and I'm applying to about 11 programs. I have my B.A. in Art History from UCLA. I was fortunate enough to have numerous research opportunities there. I can read, translate, and speak Italian, French, and Spanish, and I'm...





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