Being married has brought its own unique challenges to applying and choosing programs. I sent applications anywhere I thought I could fit, but I really gravitated towards programs in larger metro areas towards the end. For my wife's career, it would be much easier to find a job in a place like Minneapolis/St Paul or Austin than a smaller college town. Plus, the location of her family affected my decision making quite a bit. While the school in her home state was definitely among my top choices to start off with, it became almost impossible to turn down once I got a great funding offer. So it's kind of nerve-wracking in a way, because I feel like I got stove-piped into choosing a particular program, but on the other hand it really does help her out quite a bit, and her family couldn't be happier. It's probably the least I could do, since she'll be earning way more money than me for the next several years.
The ironic update to all this is that she got offered a great job in an adjacent state, so now we're going to be doing the distance thing after all.