anthroappetence

Thank you all so much for this. I am 7 months pregnant and I also have an 11 year old. I just applied to 7 PhD programs and I'm nervous about taking on too much! I have worked full time throughout my MA program, so the thought of quitting my job to focus on school full time for a PhD sounds pretty nice! But, add a new baby and husband to the mix and it could be a disaster. @stillconfused I totally know how you feel! After I turned in all of my apps, I regretted applying. I secretly hoped I wouldn't get in anywhere. Then I got an email saying I'm a finalist for one program and I'm flying out for an interview next week. This little confidence booster has completely reinvigorated my excitement. I am still scared and overwhelmed at the prospect, but I think its important to show our families that we are more than just "mommy" or "babe." We should also allow ourselves time and energy to develop as individuals, experts, scholars, etc. Yes, it will be hard work and lots of stress for a few years but I have to believe it will be worth it! Not sure about other disciplines, but I have had SO many profs who are not married and never had children. They are definitely brilliant people, but lacked certain social qualities and life experiences that I think make for outstanding professors and professionals. And if we end up with a coveted tenure-track teaching position, imagine having summers and holidays off to spend with your family!