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About mdivgirl

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  • Birthday 10/30/1978

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    Kaohsiung, Taiwan
  • Interests
    History, religion, music, sewing, knitting, my kids, the world
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    Religion - Historical Studies

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  1. I am starting a Ph.D. program in church history in the fall with an almost-4, almost-6, and almost-7 year old (pre-school, kindergarten, and 1st grade). We are also moving internationally and my husband and oldest son may or may not make it through immigration by the time the semester starts, so I am not sure if I am actually going to make it, though I think it will work once we get everyone to the country and find a house and routine. Until then, we are staying with a friend of the family so that will help. But yeah. I am a little overwhelmed with all the life details that I am barely thinking about school yet. A lot of those come from living overseas so long that I just don't have a lot of life in place, plus my husband isn't American and isn't too much help on practical life in the US matters. Thank God for the internet! One thing that helped is that my school opened up registration early. Even though we were not expected to sign up for classes until we met with our advisers at orientation, I managed to do it over the phone and get my schedule more-or-less settled. This gives me a decent idea of what my schedule will be like so I can work the family details out around it. I am very jealous of this. I have looked up day care at my school and other than limited emergency care or a full-out, full-priced daycare, they don't have much to offer. I have two evening seminars, but other than that my class schedule is one hour every morning so something like this would be totally perfect for my youngest. As it is, we're looking into a twice-a-week church program and drop-in daycares near campus -- but this makes me so jealous!
  2. As per my husband, a Brit who has a BA in history from Cambridge: "The honest answer is that traditionally, Cambridge in better at sciences and Oxford at arts, but every year the ranking change and both are excellent." I get the impression that they are pretty equally prestigious over all. You may want to ask people in your individual field which is better known/ has the top scholars in your particular area of study. You can also figure out a lot of that with Google, I'm guessing.
  3. I second the Taiwan recommendation. If you are looking to teach in after school programs (which most people do) all you need is a bachelor's to get a job and a visa. I have no idea what the current job market is like here since I am on the end of a decade at the same school and moving back to the US, but Taiwan rates highly from all accounts as a good place to be an ex-pat.
  4. I went to seminary outside of Boston with wonderful on-campus housing, so I have no specific advice to offer, but I did go to church in the city and know my church had an on-line roommate board since students made up a large percentage of the congregants. If you are religiously inclined, you may find other churches/places of worship in the area have similar things with people looking for roommates, etc.
  5. Interesting topic. I live in Asia and plenty of people leave children with grandparents to work in the city, but it is hard on the kids. Right now I am in a somewhat similar situation. I am starting grad school in the summer and though I am American neither my husband or oldest (adopted) child are. I could have timed their immigration paperwork better, but honestly there were so many nit-picking details to worry about that eventually I just put it aside to focus on actually getting into grad school -- which in turn gave me great evidence for my American "domicile" to prove I was really coming back to sponsor them since I have been overseas for more than a decade. Honestly I never saw myself making this decision to break up the family even for a short time, but my husband is very supportive and the kids so far are handling the thought well (though they are only 3 - 6 so I don't know how much they understand.). Unfortunately, immigration is more delayed these days considering the recent international climate. Fortunately we are on the last few steps (I hope) of the process and I think they should be able to come by Thanking or Christmas at the latest, but emotionally and practically this isn't very easy. Still, if I don't do it, we'll never leave so we are doing a lot of planning and contingency planning. I know my oldest will be OK without me because he loves where we are now and gets along great with his dad. My younger two are going to have to come with me because emotionally they would not cope as well even though it would make logistics easier. (Except for the flight. I could not see my husband navigating international travel with three small children unaided!). But all that to say, you know your child the best and not all kids and family dynamics are the same. If it's a long degree, your SO could always start looking for jobs closer especially if your child(ren) aren't handling it well. so just because you say "yes" doesn't necessarily mean you are committing to the entire time apart.
  6. Thanks for the info, @revtheory1126 . The screen name is a relic from time a past. It just sort of stuck. I am going to be studying a Ph.D. in church history in the department of religion so will be be jumping between the history department and the div school from the sound of it. I've mostly been looking around Franklin and Bellevue, since those are the areas I've been recommended, but I am wondering where else to look. Since you live to the West, any thoughts on Pegram or Kingston Springs? Is that getting too far away? The schools look pretty good and there are some reasonable houses with room to breathe. Or Nolansville? We have a friend with two spare bedrooms in Thomson Station willing to put us up for a while and we are having the kids start there, and that looks like a great town, but I'll see how fast the commute gets to me. I am from NJ and had plenty of long commutes growing up, but my husband is from the U.K. And we currently live right in the middle of a major Asian city where my job is about 7 minutes away on scooter, so I have no idea how we're going to feel about US distances and commutes. I am just trying to work out as much as I can before the semester starts because I am going to have plenty to get my head around for classes, etc.
  7. I, too, would suggest going with the mentor you clicked with if you think you can be interested in what he's doing. I am in a totally different field (religion/history) but I ended up switching time periods in part due to the fact that the mentor who was interested in me was too good to pass up. In fact, I ended up in a different department to work with him because I know he'll teach me a lot and is invested in my success. The first professor may end up working out great, but just from the way you present them both I can tell you feel like the second is a better fit for you personally. If you end up in academia, you can follow your own research passions later. Learning the ropes well and having a guide you can count on seems pretty invaluable at this stage. But again, I'm in a different field, so I don't know how it might be for your area.
  8. Well done with securing funding. My husband is British and did his undergrad at Cambridge and is always very pessimistic about the funding chances so I didn't even try. (Well, that and the U.K. doesn't acknowledge the adoption of our oldest son so since he came along the plan had to be the US first.) But it's a good gig if you can get it.
  9. On the off chance you still check this (or anyone else who knows the area), how is Murfreesboro working out for you? I am also moving to the area with three young children and trying to figure out what child-friendly, reasonably priced communities might have doable commutes. Most of what I have heard has been people living to the South, which makes sense given the location of Vanderbilt, but do you know anyone who lives to the Northeast (around Hendersonville)? It looks like there are some decent communities there with reasonable calculated commutes, but I am coming from overseas and have no idea how Googlemaps estimates relate to real travel times.
  10. This is a completely different field, but I started an M.Div. at a seminary when I was 20. I am now beginning a Ph.D. program in my late 30's. I am amazed that despite my years out of academia, I seem to be so much more able to think about high level things than I was during my master's (and I was a pretty decent student then). There are a lot of advantages brought by maturity, and I am choosing to focus on those. I haven't entered the program yet, and it may be weird knowing that some of the junior faculty is younger than I am, but the professors I will be working with are older and established and I am looking forward to learning from them all.
  11. I have spent a lot of time in Boston and minimal time in Chicago, so I am admittedly biased, but although I think University of Chicago sounds like a great school, if all else is equal I would choose New England over the Midwest. If you have family or friends you would be closer to in Chicago, that might swing it the other way, but other than that, Boston's a pretty great place to be a student -- if you can afford it. Also, it does seem like Harvard is in a much better part of town than the University of Chicago is, from what I've read.
  12. I just received word that I received an additional university-wide fellowship. I know it was something the department must have nominated me for based on previous communication. They didn't give me any indication of why I got it, but I did end up with a pretty high GRE (99% Verbal which is the relevant score for my field, 5.5 writing, and in the 70+% range for math which is high for a humanities student) so I suspect it did have something to do with it. It does seem like something easy to compare across disciples. (This is for what I guess would be considered a second tier school, if that helps.) But these things don't strike me as anything you can do anything about other than, as was mentioned earlier, initially submitting the strongest application possible.
  13. Haha. I got into my Ph.D. Program weeks ago and have been mired with all the practical details, but just late night I randomly ran out to my husband in the living room giddily rejoicing in the acceptance. It's a good feeling. Bask.
  14. My husband is British did his undergrad in history at Cambridge (and his dad got a Ph.D. when my husband was young), and he said that funding in the UK was pretty non-existent, so that would definitely be a concern. Also, the degree as far as I can is pretty much just your thesis, which makes it much shorter than a US degree (which you may see as an advantage or a disadvantage) and much more dependent on the advisor being a good fit than the departure. If you like the advisor and can swing the finances, I wouldn't worry about what department it is in. I am in almost the opposite boat. I have a strong theology background but am mostly interested in history. I got into none of my history programs last year but into a really good department of religion for historical studies. I brought up my concern with my POI who teaches in both departments but takes Ph.D. students in the department of religion, and he said that at the Ph.D. level the topic of your thesis is more important than the department you get it in. Since he is an excellent historian and it's a good fit, I am going there. I figure at the end of the day, the advisor being a good fit and being supportive of me and my research is more important than the department. Also, it might be an advantage to be able to teach both. I am guessing that when it comes to a job search a history degree might be more flexible than a more niche degree, but I don't know much about your subfield.
  15. I ended up having a hard time formulating e-mails but it ended up they were willing to chat on the phone. I found it was much easier to formulate questions when I had some sense of who I was talking to, and it probably took less time for both of us than composing detailed e-mails. The questions just came up as we went along. (Actually, one of them was nice enough to anticipate I wouldn't know what to ask and started with an introduction of himself and his research so that also made it easier.)