Reading this post actually gave me a really nice feeling. I moved home after my BA and am missing my academic family very much, mostly because I'm pretty sure I'm the only one in a 10 mile radius hoping to pursue academia as a career. My friends don't get it, they're concentrating more on building families than careers, my mom sees pursuing an academic degree as a death blow for my credit score and the most unpratical move a young woman can make, and dad is sort of ignoring it because he doesn't think I'll actually get in (though I already DID, so I don't know where he's getting these ideas...)
It feels like everyone is sort of shaking their heads behind my back because I'm taking this risk, and they're assuming I'm going to fail. I think a lot of it goes back to the fact that I'm a first-generation college student, let alone a first-generation graduate student, and my immigrant mother doesn't understand why passion and love of my job is more important to me than a steady financial future with which I can support myself. I don't think she understands that I'm cool with being poor for a couple of years, this is what I love, and for me that's worth it.
Anyway, reading this post really gave me a little boost so thanks to everyone else who is struggling with these issues. It's tough knowing that when I come home in tears of happiness with an acceptance my mom is just standing there with crossed arms and a death glare, but it's nice to know I ain't the only one.
Keep it classy, ladies and gents.