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  1. Have you seen this article? http://www.theologydegrees.org/rankings/phd-religion-religious-studies/
  2. p.p.s. I just saw that you might have the option to do your program in three years. See if that is possible, and if it really will affect your scholarship. If it will, can you get loans? You'll spend less in childcare and have more time with your son.
  3. As someone who has been in your shoes, my biggest tip is that "slow and steady wins the race." I think your Monday schedule looks like too many hours away from your son (if it can be avoided.) The problem is not only that Mondays will be hard, but that they are likely to be too much for him (or both of you), and then he's likely to be clingy or grumpy or attention-seeking the next day or beyond. I would recommend the 14 hour/week internship, because 7 more hours to rest/see your son/catch up on homework is actually quite a lot. Kids do well with consistency, so the more you can spread things out, in general, the better. Keep in mind that kids tend to get sick, so if possible, have a bit of padding in your schedule. So, if you miss a week here or a class there, you have a little wiggle room to make up for it. Don't be afraid to bring your son to a class with you if he's too sick to go to school or day care, but not actually super sick. I've also found the time after my kids go to bed or before they get up useful for studying - if you review something before bed, your brain works on it while you sleep - but do make sure you get enough sleep. Also, don't forget about finances. They can cause a lot of stress. Find out if you're eligible for WIC or food stamps/EBT or subsidized childcare, and if you are, use them. If you are eligible for a scholarship, apply. If you can get a loan, take out a bit more than you think you need. Once you're behind the 8 ball, it's hard to catch up. And, also, though this is hard for most grad students, go for the good enough. It's ok if your house is a little messy, it's ok if you get A-s instead of As. Take care of your son, take of your self, and hang in there. You can do it!!! p.s. Don't forget planning. A written planner with everything in it, including the hours your son has daycare, the days your school or his is closed for a holiday, etc will really help. And, try to plan the next year. In terms of finances, school work etc, do you have a plan for the summer between school years? If you can take a break, even a month, to just hang out with your son, that will make up for some being away from each other during the school year.
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