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wow, I completely forgot that I had commented on this thread! Glad I had notifications forwarding to email, as I'm fairly inactive here altogether. I'm now in my fourth year at program #2. I've finished a master's thesis/ degree along the way, passed my comprehensive exams, and now am now into dissertation work (how has that much time passed?!!). The process of applying to and deciding on programs seems far, far away. While I've thought of program #1 often over the years, I don't regret my decision to attend program #2. Most of what I said previously holds true, but I do now have a little more insight, now that I've been here for a few years. Here are some extra tidbits: First, I think I would have been just as happy at program #1 as I am at program #2. Both were excellent opportunities, and I've often wondered how my graduate career would be different if I'd chose oppositely. That said, I have zero regrets. I love my program, my advisor, my lab, and my research. I just have a little FOMO regarding the other lab because I have a feeling I'd have loved it there, too. But I also know I'd have FOMO about my current lab if i'd not chosen it. It was a hard choice. There really wasn't a wrong decision. I had a gut feeling to go with program #1, so I did. Trust your gut. Also - and I can't emphasize this enough - don't burn bridges. You're about to build a career in your field and you may end up working with the PI from the other program later on! As an example, my lab now has a post-doc who interviewed with our PI as a graduate student (but ultimately earned their PhD elsewhere) several years ago! I, too, would happily do a post-doc at program #1. The right people will respect your decision, regardless of what you choose. Second, I stand by my opinion that prestige isn't that important in the longterm. My current advisor was tenure-track when I joined, and earned tenure last year. They're young. The other faculty member has been in the game for longer, and has a lot of name recognition. Prestige would have been an added bonus with this person, who also checked all the boxes for what I was looking for in a mentor. However, rather than "prestige" per se, consider respect. Is the person you are considering working with producing science that is well-respected? Are they respected by their peers? Do they respect their peers? Do they respect their employees (research technicians, post-docs, etc.)? Do they respect current graduate students? Undergraduates? Importantly, do they respect you? In my case, the answer to all of these questions was a resounding yes for both professors, but be mindful of this. Don't trade respect for prestige. Also, as I'm writing this I realize that I now think more in terms of prestige of an individual scientist than I do of the university. In my experience, the PI matters far more than the school. tl;dr: Definitely don't choose a program based on the prestige of the school alone. Third, money matters, but in my experience, PhD programs are almost always fully funded unless there's a bigger issue (like not enough department funds, or a PI not having grant funding, or a PI not getting tenure). Program #1 guaranteed funding for five years in print, while program #2 technically only guaranteed a semester at a time in writing. That seemed like a big difference at the time, but it hasn't been. My PI (program #2) verbally promised funding for five years, and was very transparent about the grant funding in the lab as well as department funding that would support me. That made me feel safe in my decision at the time. Now, I know that my funding was - for all intents and purposes - guaranteed just as much as it was in the other program. Ask about department funding, university support, grants, tenure status, etc. to get a feel for how well supported you - and your work - will be. Fourth, the broader community and graduate student supports matter. Both programs I considered have a graduate union, which I didn't know much about at the time, but appreciate a lot now that I'm here. This protects our pay & working hours, plus organizes to ensure that we have healthcare benefits and the option for vision and dental insurance as well. There have been a lot of pay cuts and furloughs at the university due to COVID, but my salary has not yet been affected, likely due in part to our strong union. Consider the broader community, too. Contrary to popular belief, you're a whole human being while you're in graduate school. Will you be able to build a community or identity outside of graduate school? Is that something that will make or break your decision? Fifth, be ready for the unexpected. Choose a program where you feel that you'll be supported and able to handle whatever life throws at you. I never would have anticipated something like COVID-19 happening during my graduate career, but it did. Thankfully, I'm in a lab and an environment with values and expectations that align well with my own, meaning we've been able to work through this crisis empathetically and about as well as can be expected. It's been hard, of course, but I've had a whole team of quality people going through it with me. That's important to me. It can be very hard to predict what might happen when you're in a program, but how a particular professor/ lab - or their university at large - responds to situations like COVID-19 can also be very telling. It's something that I'll consider when I do ultimately look for post-docs, so I'd include it as you consider graduate programs. Even aside from big things like COVID-19, there will always be unexpected hurdles in graduate school. Choose a mentor who you trust to guide you through them in a way that aligns with your expectations/ needs, or at the very least is someone who you feel comfortable communicating those expectations and needs to. TL;DR: Go with your gut feeling, choose the program with the mentor and research fit that suits you. Prestige matters, but not that much. Make the decision that's right for you.

I'm not sure if this thread is still active, but I had a similar debate between two programs, so I'll weigh in. Program 1: Ranked #2, offered a little over a $20k stipend for the first year, + guaranteed funding for 5 years. PI extremely well-known, established, & respected. Program 2: Unranked*, offered a little over a $20k stipend for the first year, + funding for 4 years if I stay in good standing. PI much younger, not as well-known, but certainly well-respected. Cost of living is similar in both places, perhaps slightly higher at Program 1, but it's also a bigger city with more to do, etc. *To be fair, I've only found rankings of 1-10 for this sub-field in psych. I decided on Program 2 for a number of reasons. Looking at the numbers above, that might seem a little crazy. I sometimes worry that it might have been crazy, too (and will especially wonder if I end up there for a 5th year without funding), but here are some of the other factors I considered: Faculty fit. Both possible mentors would undoubtedly have been great, but their mentorship styles differed in unexpected ways. The PI at program 1 was very quiet and professional. Past students indicated that he is a great academic mentor, but that you shouldn't expect more than that (e.g., he's also very private, and the relationship will stay particularly formal even after several years). The PI at program 2 (whom I had worked with for a year in the past) is also very professional, but he made a point to tell me that he would provide mentorship both academically and professionally. Having known both him and one of his previous grad students, I know that he will also provide appropriate support and guidance personally, and I've seen him demonstrate a work-family-life balance that is important to me. Research fit. The research at Program 1 would have fascinated me, and certainly would have helped me to stand out in the future. There seemed to be a lot of independence in the lab (and ample resources to let you do nearly anything you wanted), but the project I had initially been interested in was a side-project that the PI had no intentions of continuing on. He might have considered it, but it certainly would not have been a key focus unless I initiated it. At Program 2, the research fit is phenomenally close. I've also had the benefit of working in this lab previously, and on the project that I intend to continue on in graduate school. Interviewing at other programs and exploring other potential lines of research helped me realize how passionate I am about this specific niche area, and that it really is the area that I want to focus in. Research in this program will focus on that specific line of work, and challenge me to incorporate other viewpoints and interdisciplinary applications of the work. While I would of course be given independence to do my own thing as well, I wouldn't be working in a silo in this lab: others have overlapping interests that will supplement and challenge my own. Prestige matters, but you can establish yourself as competitive or "prestigious" in other ways. Publishing, of course, helps, as does presenting. At Program 2, I already have a year of work in, and my PI indicated that there would be opportunities to publish, and perhaps in more prestigious journals, more quickly. You can make yourself stand out in other ways, rather than through the reputation of the university alone. Program culture/ diversity. While there were no red flags at Program 1, and the school itself is very diverse and has lots of programs to support women, POC, and the LGBTQ+ community, I interviewed exclusively with white men. I didn't notice it at first, but in retrospect I feel like I was invited into a very privileged circle, both in that it was a prestigious school, but also that it was a bit of an old boy's club. At Program 2, I interviewed with as many female professors as male, many of whom held equal or more prominent positions within the department as their male peers. One of the male professors specifically addressed how invaluable it has been to have a female head of the department, and how it has shaped the culture of the program. I only applied to programs that had a pretty even split of male-female faculty, so I know that Program 1 does also have female professors, but during the interview weekend, I met them only when they were the ones coordinating the event, handing out t-shirts, organizing breakfast, etc. I'm sure this wasn't intentional, and they may simply have been the ones who volunteered for those responsibilities, but it says something. I've handled my share of gender discrimination in STEM (both subtly and extremely overtly), and it's something that I'm very conscious of. I don't want to work my way into the boy's club, i want there to not be a boy's club in the first place. TL;DR: Go with your gut feeling, choose the program with the mentor and research fit that suits you. Prestige matters, but not that much. Make the decision that's right for you. Also: When I turned down Program 1, the PI was incredibly kind and understanding, which just goes to show: they want you to make the right decision for you, too! So while yes, it's stressful, and scary, trust yourself. You know what's right for you. Good luck!