lynne_k8989 Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Anyone else feeling post-decision regret? I keep mulling over what I'm losing at the other program and not sure I made the right choice. What's the worst that could happen? I re-apply if it doesn't work out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cookie Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 My dear, No one can ever predict the future. Just tell yourself that whatever choice you made is the best choice, and go with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vene Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 I think that such feelings are common. Pre-admit it's something you have to work to achieve, but once you have the offer it's easy to start to take such for granted and wonder if you could do better. No matter what when you make a decision other options are gone forever, I'm sure you made the choice you did for good reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynne_k8989 Posted April 22, 2014 Author Share Posted April 22, 2014 it was so close and now i'm thinking i made the wrong choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VioletAyame Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 I think a little bit of buyer's remorse is normal. If you look around the board you can see everyone's emotions all go haywire after the big decision. By choosing one program you did give up the potentials of all other programs, but I find it very helpful to focus on the details of that one particular chosen program: make housing arrangements, explore the city, talk to your POIs and current students, etc. For me that did the trick of replacing the endless possibilities I had pre-decision with this more vivid, concrete picture of my future post-decision, substituting quantity with quality in a way and keeping my excitement up. On the other hand, thinking about reapplying in case things don't work out is like thinking about divorce before getting married: it is helpful in a way by reminding you that you always have a way out, but it may not be the healthiest way to begin your commitment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vene Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 it was so close and now i'm thinking i made the wrong choice.If it was so close, then even if you did make the "wrong" choice, the end result can't really be that much different, can it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessePinkman Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Whats done is done. You made the choice that was better at that time. Now work on it to make it even better. Perhaps in the end it will turn out to be the best choice you made. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynne_k8989 Posted April 22, 2014 Author Share Posted April 22, 2014 and there's no way to change it now, right? i think the idea that i can back out if it doesn't work out and reapply to the other program makes me feel better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifesaver Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 Of course I wonder if I made the right decision. Of course I have a ton of anxiety about it. But in the end, I turned down rank and prestige for happiness and less debt and that's what I'm sticking to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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