Dear fellow grad students, Apologies for this self-involved and very long post. Basically, I just passed my comprehensive exams in a top PhD program in Comparative Literature in the U.S. The process was exhausting; I went straight from my first year of teaching to cramming for exams during the summer. By the end of this, I was crying every day and regularly having panic attacks - I had never been so stressed out in my life. Now that I've finished my exams, my department is asking for a draft of my prospectus (only one month after my exams). I started trying to write it yesterday (I thought if I get it over with, I might have time to just relax), but I am just so exhausted and don't want to work anymore. Getting myself to work on the prospectus is making me miserable. I've spent hours just crying, because I feel I barely have an idea of what I'd like to write about - and, at the moment, I don't want to think about anything. Everything seems to come out confused, and I know my prospectus won't be great, seeing as I only have 10 days to work on it. I'm not sure if it's being exhausted/upset that is making me confused about what to write, or if it's being confused about what to write that is making me upset (and even more exhausted). It's a possibility to ask for more time, but I'm not sure I would get it - I'm also not sure it would make a difference, because I'm so exhausted that it would take at least a few months for me to get some form of energy back. Although I think that I can manage to continue working on my prospectus by just gritting my teeth and doing it, the general experience of teaching, taking my generals exams, and then having to crunch out this prospectus, which is causing me so many panic attacks, makes me question my decision to have gone to grad school in general. I worry that maybe it's difficult for me only because I'm not as brilliant as the other students, and that maybe it's just that I don't have the intellectual and emotional (and physical) stamina to continue pushing myself like this because I'm not smart enough. I seem to manage to have done fairly well in some classes and some aspects of the PhD program, but only because of an enormous effort, which always came at a great physical and emotional cost. Other students seem either to accept these costs (it seems many grad students don't care about their health) or somehow have a stouter constitution. Anyway, I feel ashamed and worried that maybe I am not smart enough/hard-working enough, and also find it extremely difficult to continue doing any work. I'm just so exhausted. I will finish my Ph.D., but in the meantime am struggling with extreme unhappiness - both about my choice to go to grad school, my choice in topic, having to continue working constantly, and now my possible lack of career options once I finish. Additionally, I feel I'm not saying anything important and/or am not brilliant enough to say something important and meaningful about literature. I know that I can write something fairly decent but bullshitty and that it would be accepted, but that doesn't make me feel better - it makes me even more upset to think about how easy it is to get away with bullshit in my (top) literature program. I know that there are some students who may make brilliant and insightful arguments, but I worry that I am not one of them - even if I am, any worthwhile papers I write seem to require a lot of time and a monumental amount of effort, which I don't feel is possible to do on a regular and continued basis. I have considered dropping out but would literally have no idea what to do with myself - I think it's better to finish and then start looking for other career options. If I had any questions, they would probably be - should I possibly ask to have more time for the prospectus or get it over with? Are these panic/crying attacks normal for grad students? Has anyone ever felt this way before due to lack of energy? I honestly am not sure if I am disillusioned with the whole Ph.D. process or am just very exhausted. I worry that maybe I am somehow just lazy and a person whose constitution is just not made out for intensive work (then I worry as well about what my career options would be like - what if I'm just lazy!?) I would love to talk to someone who could possibly talk me through this, but don't have any other grad students or professors I would feel comfortable confiding in. I just feel desperate, useless, stupid, lazy, scared, and exhausted. Any advice, suggestions, or commiserations are so appreciated. Thank you.