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Thanks so much for the feedback.. really helpful and great to hear some positive experience... this has been one of the hardest decisions ever... gradrunner what is your field of study? I have decided to let it go this time... my mind tells me if im not 100% and already have doubts...then the program is probably not for me.. I'm also not sure a future in research and academia is what I want. I have decided to focus more on practical work... (assuming I can get it!!) and which I think I will enjoy just as much... and if a phd is really for me, I will reapply in the future when I am 100% and more financially secure. Perhaps I will regret it.... !! Best of luck to you though... sounds like your a great part of the way through...and it's true... when you finish, no one can ever, ever take it away from you!

I have read numerous articles online and spoken to various people about their experiences of completing a PHD... and unfortunately a lot of people's experiences have been very negative, everyone I have asked, has reflected that looking back, given the same choice, they wouldn't do the phd again. I am really lucky to have been offered a place on a funded course, with a great topic, but I am 31, and have debts. Quite frankly im a little terrified of having the same/more debts in 4 years to come, whereas most people I know are financially secure and starting families! Im also not sure where exactly the research will take me and whether it is worth it. I enjoy working in teams and as a group, so also a little concerned about working in isolation for 3/4 years to come. How have other people's experiences been? Has anyone started with these uncertainties... ? Can anyone plse share their positive experiences! I have accepted an offer but I am now considering whether perhaps this might not be the right path for me... so wld be grateful for other people's comments!