Hi there,
So, my doctoral program starts in October,15, same month of my expected delivery date. I have got acceptance and scholarship letter, but final approval is still in process for lack of some transcripts. First, I am feeling bad that I have still not told the university about my pregnancy and that in no way I can join the normal schedule, though I had to give acceptance to the mails till now I have received. Everyone is telling me to wait till final approval and tell them at later stage.
Second I am also not sure whether I should just join a semester late or defer for the next year. The course work is for 9 months and next summer starts the problem course, so if join a semester late I am not sure whether it would be a good decision to join with a 2.5 month old baby. I plan to get one of my parent to live with me for some time, so that while the baby is still very small I can complete the course work and when it grows a little big I can start my problem research work. During problem research work my schedule will be more flexible.
The graduate booklet says that one can take off for a semester only after joining the program, so it doesn't look possible in my case. The professors seems supportive and I am worried whether any university policy might hinder my dream of doing it's program.
Lots of confusion! Has anyone of you been in this position? Please share your thoughts.
Thanks in advance,