I did a BA in psychology, then I worked in the field for 4 years. I did a mix of full and part-time jobs including:
-fundraising for a non-profit
-residential care for youth
-counselling at an addiction treatment centre
-crisis work at a community mental health agency
During these years I also volunteered on a distress line and as a support group facilitator for men who survived childhood sexual abuse.
I began a certificate in addiction studies a few years back, but it is not yet complete. I returned to school almost full time last year to complete prerequisite courses for the HBSW I was interested in. This year I am doing the one-year HBSW. My placement involves work with eating disorders. I am also volunteering as a research assistant.
My grades in undergrad were very inconsistent.. probably B average at best. However, last year my average was an A- and this year so far it is an A.
I know you are heart broken. I'm sure that once it settles you will find a way to make things work and life will feel more comfortable. All the best to you!