So, one of my LORs still hasn't come through. I'm not sure whether I am partly to blame (I probably am!), but here's the status:
I have an app deadline this coming Monday (15 Dec)
My referee agreed to write a LOR over a month ago.
I specified that the deadline was 15 Dec a week ago (yes, should've said initially, but only found out now that I need to upload the LOR myself BEFORE the deadline, and that he doesn't have to upload anything)
How do I ask him for the LOR now, given the deadline coming up very soon? Do I basically order him to write it asap (I suspect he hasn't written anything yet) or what?