Hi,
I had the same problem. I got married last September and had to put my husbands income on my fasfa. He makes nearly double my salary so I was worried it would negativly impact me. Some schools offer merit aid which has nothing to do with income. I was very lucky and got a merit scholarship (20K). So, it does suck but once you are married there is no around it (trust me I have tried). Try researching whether or not the schools you are interested in offer merit aid. Other than that you could wait to get married, but if you are in love why wait!