IfhhoteCannot reacted to rainbowworrier in Significant Others and Grad School
I don't think those 3 choices are quite adequate...my answer would have to be:
[ ] moving to attend grad school closer to somebody you were in a relationship with, but there was a break up after you committed to move, and there are still strong feelings in both cases, and you have no clue what the heck is going to happen...
IfhhoteCannot reacted to neuropsych76 in Significant Others and Grad School
my girlfriend of 4 years and I will both be attending doctorate programs this fall...but 700 miles apart.
sadly, we decided it would be best to end it since neither of us wants a relationship where we maybe see each other once a year. plus, it gives us a chance to grow individually instead of relying on each other like we did in undergrad.
those are the positives, but it still really sucks.