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    Maritime Studies/Marine Archaeology

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  1. KayAnne14

    #WomensWave

    Hello my fellow readers and writers! I hope everyone is having an amazing weekend, and (because of the weekend) I really want to keep this short, sweet, and simple. For those of you interested in the feminist movement, gender studies, and everything else included in that category, you probably know what tomorrow is. That's right! It is the Women's March on D.C. (and everywhere else for that matter). Firstly, I want everyone to know that not all feminists are these man hating people that despise the world and half the people in it. Secondly, I want you to understand that feminists do, in fact, have a bad rep. As much as I want to deny this, even I know a few feminists that are just a bit...well, much...even for me, but to each their own! Thirdly, I want you to know that I am a FEMINIST. I am a HeForShe supporter, I support equal rights for ALL, and I really want to spread the word on what being a feminist really means. It means wanting to have the equal opportunity as others with the same educational background, and getting paid the equal pay wages as someone with equal experience despite being of different genders. It means getting rid of things such as the "Pink Tax," and all those standing with it. But more importantly, it means being human. Not only being human, but understanding that we are ALL human! We shouldn't discriminate, we shouldn't judge, we shouldn't be prejudice against those of different religion, political standing, and who someone loves. It is not our place to judge others, nor is it some else's place to judge me. I just want everyone to be respectful to each other during this entire movement and to know that not everyone has to understand you or stand beside you. Just as long as you don't stand in front of someone who is just trying to make a difference in their own personal life. So, without further ado, I want everyone participating in the Women's March to enjoy it and to remember that you are making a difference, no matter how small it may seem now. I want everyone to have a safe weekend, and to remember that no one stands alone. I am HeForShe, I am a equal rights supporter, and I am a feminist! So for all you gender studies people out there, remember today. Someone somewhere just might make history. Until next time, K. P.S. remember to #SpreadTheLove and thanks for reading!
  2. KayAnne14

    My Life In Ruins

    It's kind of weird to see how far you've come in the past few months, or few years even. For most, the time of applications has finally come to a close and peace can finally happen...at least for a moment or two. You've finally gotten those letters of rec., the horrifying test scores went through swimmingly, and all the transcripts and writing samples have uploaded with as little drama as possible. To which I say: good for you! You've made the first steps into a life long career choice and you will always have my support. While I once said, "let the games begin," now I must say, "let's get down to business." Don't get me wrong, I'm sure the next few weeks will be some of the most peaceful that you've had in a while. However, these next few weeks will also spark your inspiration for research. You'll find yourself not only looking at places to live, jobs available, etc. etc. etc., but you'll also look deeper into your career choice. For those archaeology wannabes, our lives will officially be in ruins, and it's not strange to think that the ruins are exactly where we wish to be. While my life will (hopefully) be in the ocean, many of you will be spent in the sands of Egypt (maybe deciphering a 2400 year old papyrus...you know who you are!), in the jungles of the Amazon, or in the freezing Alaskan snow...I'm sure there's something there, but don't take my word on that. For those education wannabes, books will consume your lives and research will be your battle ground, to which I say: I want to know what you plan to research. To those science wannabes, the lab will become your home, your lab coat will be the new fashion, and the periodic table (from what I gather) will become as basic to you as your computer keyboard. Every subject as their own ruins, and every subject has their own struggles. With that being said, however, nothing worth while was ever achieved easily. You'll each have your hardships, you'll each have your points of disparity, and you'll each have those moments when you begin to question yourself. DON'T QUESTION YOURSELF. You started this journey for a reason, so do your best to remember that reason. Write it down, make a poster, do something to where you'll be able to see it as inspiration rather than a question. I plan on keeping this post sweet and simple (after all, Pinterest is calling my name for apartment inspiration), but I wanted you to at least read what I had to say. In fact, I have a little treat for you. A quote. Not from me, I promise you, but from an old story I read a long time ago that always just stuck to me. "But the rewards for struggling is that after the struggle, you know what it means to live." - Fruits Basket. With all the books that I read, very few leave me with as much inspiration as this one did (no matter how weird it may seem). Also, remember I told you that I read this a long time ago, so don't judge me if you look it up to see what it is...don't judge. So, here's to a life in ruins... - K. P.S. Please be sure to check out and vote on the #SpreadTheLove campaign to help let me know which organization you want to see supported in the hopes of spreading education for future generations! And please be sure to share on Facebook to get other people involved! The more people we gather, the bigger the difference we can make. Hope to hear from you all soon!
  3. KayAnne14

    Let the games begin...

    Well, it's January (as if you didn't know). The month of New Year's Resolutions, the same resolutions starting to fail, the newly established "How have you aged?" Facebook fad, and (to the grad school wannabes) deadlines. I have looked at enough programs to know that most of the application deadlines are in January. So, I have a little message for everyone involved: may the odds be ever in your favor (insert Hunger Games whistle tune here). At this point, you are most likely panicking because that one professor or person is waiting until the very last second to send in their letter of recommendation, digging further into your program research (aka looking at the campus, the teachers, student life, etc), or checking your email two - three times a day waiting to hear on the life changing decision. So, let the games begin... With today being the deadline for a lot of programs (hopefully not yours if you're still waiting on that one annoying person who takes forever to get stuff done), let me just say/hope that this next week will be one of the most calming. Everything is finally turned in and completed, you know that you won't have a decision for a while, and you're toying with the idea of where you're going to live when you move in July/August. To that, may I recommend one fatal app: Pinterest. Let's be honest, you've most likely heard of it by now, and most of you are probably just as addicted as I am. I mean, how cute are those little apartment ideas that pop up on your board, right?! My poor Pinterest is a victim to my fangirl side, my inspirational side, and my writing/grad school side. Your's is probably similar and there is no shame! So, my fellow grad school wannabes, enjoy the next two - three weeks. This is the only time where you know you won't hear back and you know there won't be a decision made. This is the only time where you can let your mind wonder to the amazing world of possibilities that will arise once you receive your golden ticket into the chocolate factory. This is the only time (probably) that you will feel peace. So, let your heart take you to the most incredible places imaginable. Hang out with those friends you keep putting off due to stress and laziness (I know because I'm the same), have a game/movie night with your family, and take that lovely cutie pie of a dog on a walk or to the park. In other words, enjoy this time while it lasts because Lord knows that in a month, when you start to see those few little blimps of acceptance or rejection, the stress with pile on full force and you will enter the darkest corners of the abyss. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you learn to enjoy these next few weeks. Be sure to keep reading and check out my blog, Ready As I'll Ever Be, for more fun posts! Also, be sure to vote on the #SpreadTheLove poll for your favorite organization to aspire the spread of education around the world. Until next time, K.
  4. KayAnne14

    Going the Distance

    Aww!!! Thank you so much, Sseire! And good luck on your PhD adventures! I still can't wait to hear your opinion on the Mummy language accuracy lol. Be sure to PM me so we can keep in touch. Wishing you the best of luck, K.
  5. KayAnne14

    Going the Distance

    Hello guys and gals, lords and ladies, At this point I have a small number of you that actually enjoy my writing, and first off I would like to say thanks for all your support (fan mail and all)! However, as I sit here in the darkness of the night, having my mind be to anxious to go to sleep, I find myself wondering two things, both with the same key phrase: "go the distance" (yes, like the amazing Hercules song; no, there's no judgement). Here's what I don't want: I don't want you to read this in the questioning manner (so don't sit there and start questioning every single decision you've had to make or have been making during this grad school process...yes, I'm talking to you). I'm a firm believer in the idea that everything happens for a reason, so you are going through this ordeal for a reason, whether it's good or bad. After all, I'm living proof...but that's a story for another day. Here's what I want to happen (although, there is no guarantee it will): I want you, you, who is sitting there on your phone or computer, reading this looking to connect with other people and research what this whole process is like, I want you to read this little post and reflect. Not reflect on what you've done, but what you will do. Scratch that. What you are willing to do. So, let me state the two differences that arise in the same phrase. 1) "go the distance" - how far are you willing to go to succeed in life? I don't think I need to state that you have to remain within the legal boundaries, but I already did. I know, just like you, that grad school is a lot. And I'm not just talking about financially. It's a lot of hard work, dedication, time, and sacrifice. It's pushing yourself to see how far you can go, and it's pushing yourself even more to show you have what it takes. I could sit here and tell you that I, (hopefully) future marine archaeologist, went so far to have hip reconstruction surgery, have had/am having/will have six months of physical therapy, and more physical restraints and responsibilities in order to take a step toward my dream. However, that isn't necessarily the case. As much as I would like to say I went through all that just for grad school would be a load of BS, and I don't want to forget the fact that now I'll be able to swim with my nieces and nephews, or the fact that I'll be able to dance again, or even the fact that I can now have the opportunity to learn new things like yoga, surfing, or even scuba diving (although that last one I need for grad school as well, but that's not the point). I went so far as to basically put my life on hold while enduring this whole thing, and the idea of grad school just helped me get through it all. But that's not it. You see, I also went and started a blog on a website built just for grad students, both present and future, to help me connect with people who know what I'm going through. However, do you know what I'm not willing to do? Give up. I don't plan on giving up any close relationships I've built with my friends and family. I don't plan on having time pass me by while I wait for a letter in the mail deciding my future. And, most of all, I'm not willing to give up dreaming. Something that I've learned is that there is always this line that people invisibly draw around them (almost like that circle in the movie, The Little Princess (one of my favorite movies btw)). This line not only establishes what they're willing to not do, but it helps them push the boundaries of what they thought they could do. It helps people realize that they are stronger than other's give them credit for. You are a part of this group! This circle in the sand is your barrier, but it is not your cage. You get to decide how far you go, and you get to decide what you are not willing to sacrifice. Yes, you might get into grad school, but it would be all for not if you ended up throwing away all the friendships you've made along the way, all the memories that you would have forgotten, and all the warmth you've felt. No, you might not get into grad school, but if you let that one rejection be your cage then you will forever be trapped in a state of "what if" and "not good enough." Neither are a good way to live. 2) "go the distance" Same phrase, different meaning. The first questions your boundaries; this one, however, says, "what boundaries?" It means to push yourself to be the best version of yourself that you can be. It means to trust in your abilities and know that you are not alone. It means having faith even when it may seem hopeless. While some of you would prefer to go with the second one for encouragement and stamina, I'm afraid that you don't get to choose. They are the same phrase for a reason. Both are what make up a great story, but both are what make up an even greater life. It is because you have read until this far that the following phrase will make sense to you: go the distance so that you can go the distance. Know your boundaries so that you can push past them. You've got this! Isn't it about time you started trying? I know that this post is getting pretty long so I'll try to keep this next bit short. This is a copy. I know it may seem weird, but my curiosity got peaked sitting here in the darkness at...12:37am. The post with the "*" by the signature is part of my blog, while the one with the "!" is a forum. It's not that I want to see which does better...after all, it's the same exact post. More like, I want to see which one has the bigger audience/viewers to see which portion of this cafe is more...well, I guess you could say "popular" was the word I was going for... Anyways, let me know which you read, and if you read both, I just have one question: why? I just told you they were the same post... I hope everyone has a good night, a great weekend, and a great week ahead. Be sure to remember the difference and thank you all for reading! Hope to hear from you all soon, K!
  6. KayAnne14

    Going the Distance

    Hello guys and gals, lords and ladies, At this point I have a small number of you that actually enjoy my writing, and first off I would like to say thanks for all your support (fan mail and all)! However, as I sit here in the darkness of the night, having my mind be to anxious to go to sleep, I find myself wondering two things, both with the same key phrase: "go the distance" (yes, like the amazing Hercules song; no, there's no judgement). Here's what I don't want: I don't want you to read this in the questioning manner (so don't sit there and start questioning every single decision you've had to make or have been making during this grad school process...yes, I'm talking to you). I'm a firm believer in the idea that everything happens for a reason, so you are going through this ordeal for a reason, whether it's good or bad. After all, I'm living proof...but that's a story for another day. Here's what I want to happen (although, there is no guarantee it will): I want you, you, who is sitting there on your phone or computer, reading this looking to connect with other people and research what this whole process is like, I want you to read this little post and reflect. Not reflect on what you've done, but what you will do. Scratch that. What you are willing to do. So, let me state the two differences that arise in the same phrase. 1) "go the distance" - how far are you willing to go to succeed in life? I don't think I need to state that you have to remain within the legal boundaries, but I already did. I know, just like you, that grad school is a lot. And I'm not just talking about financially. It's a lot of hard work, dedication, time, and sacrifice. It's pushing yourself to see how far you can go, and it's pushing yourself even more to show you have what it takes. I could sit here and tell you that I, (hopefully) future marine archaeologist, went so far to have hip reconstruction surgery, have had/am having/will have six months of physical therapy, and more physical restraints and responsibilities in order to take a step toward my dream. However, that isn't necessarily the case. As much as I would like to say I went through all that just for grad school would be a load of BS, and I don't want to forget the fact that now I'll be able to swim with my nieces and nephews, or the fact that I'll be able to dance again, or even the fact that I can now have the opportunity to learn new things like yoga, surfing, or even scuba diving (although that last one I need for grad school as well, but that's not the point). I went so far as to basically put my life on hold while enduring this whole thing, and the idea of grad school just helped me get through it all. But that's not it. You see, I also went and started a blog on a website built just for grad students, both present and future, to help me connect with people who know what I'm going through. However, do you know what I'm not willing to do? Give up. I don't plan on giving up any close relationships I've built with my friends and family. I don't plan on having time pass me by while I wait for a letter in the mail deciding my future. And, most of all, I'm not willing to give up dreaming. Something that I've learned is that there is always this line that people invisibly draw around them (almost like that circle in the movie, The Little Princess (one of my favorite movies btw)). This line not only establishes what they're willing to not do, but it helps them push the boundaries of what they thought they could do. It helps people realize that they are stronger than other's give them credit for. You are a part of this group! This circle in the sand is your barrier, but it is not your cage. You get to decide how far you go, and you get to decide what you are not willing to sacrifice. Yes, you might get into grad school, but it would be all for not if you ended up throwing away all the friendships you've made along the way, all the memories that you would have forgotten, and all the warmth you've felt. No, you might not get into grad school, but if you let that one rejection be your cage then you will forever be trapped in a state of "what if" and "not good enough." Neither are a good way to live. 2) "go the distance" Same phrase, different meaning. The first questions your boundaries; this one, however, says, "what boundaries?" It means to push yourself to be the best version of yourself that you can be. It means to trust in your abilities and know that you are not alone. It means having faith even when it may seem hopeless. While some of you would prefer to go with the second one for encouragement and stamina, I'm afraid that you don't get to choose. They are the same phrase for a reason. Both are what make up a great story, but both are what make up an even greater life. It is because you have read until this far that the following phrase will make sense to you: go the distance so that you can go the distance. Know your boundaries so that you can push past them. You've got this! Isn't it about time you started trying? I know that this post is getting pretty long so I'll try to keep this next bit short. This is a copy. I know it may seem weird, but my curiosity got peaked sitting here in the darkness at...12:37am. The post with the "*" by the signature is part of my blog, while the one with the "!" is a forum. It's not that I want to see which does better...after all, it's the same exact post. More like, I want to see which one has the bigger audience/viewers to see which portion of this cafe is more...well, I guess you could say "popular" was the word I was going for... Anyways, let me know which you read, and if you read both, I just have one question: why? I just told you they were the same post... I hope everyone has a good night, a great weekend, and a great week ahead. Be sure to remember the difference and thank you all for reading! Hope to hear from you all soon, K*
  7. KayAnne14

    So, you've entered the abyss...

    Sseire, that is amazing advice! Good luck on the translation and I can't wait to hear all about it! Drfigue, you are so welcome! Thank you so much for reading and I hope you keep in touch! Be sure to check out the blog, Ready As AI'll Ever Be, for more! Thanks everyone, K.
  8. KayAnne14

    Finding Your Fairy Godmother

    Bibbidi-bobbidi-booyah! (See what I did there?) For those of you familiar with the tale of Cinderella, let me first start off by saying that I'm not expecting a old, stout woman with a magic wand coming in and hooking me up with an awesome outfit and a night off. While I do have two step-sisters, I know this is far from happening, and although I'm not the biggest fan of the original/Disney version, I do like many of the other "remakes," so to speak. However, if you've watched any of the others (A Cinderella Story or A Cinderella Story: If The Shoe Fits, for example), you'll realize they each have one thing in common: they each have a fairy godmother (in a way)! Now most of the times, this fairy person is a best friend of some sort and that, my dear readers, is exactly what I'm going to talk about today!! Most of you currently in the abyss have understood a few things by now: 1) that annoying voice in your head reaches pitches you didn't even know were possible, 2) how much you love, love, love the Girl Scout cookie season, and 3) what it means to have a good friend who is beyond encouraging during this intense and maddening experience. For some, this friend could me a family member, but for me, my fairy godmother is my best friend. Now just to clarify, this girl had to put up living with me while studying for my GRE while working a full time job. She watched me go through the application process once before only to get rejected due to not having two pre-requisite classes, and she helped me destress by going out one day and buying my favorite snacks and watching movies. I know what you're thinking: "where can I get a friend like this?" Well, that's what I'm here to tell you! During the abyss, the time spent here reveals a multitude of things. Mainly about yourself, yes, but it also reveals the feelings of those closest to you. Who supports you, who encourages you, and who secretly thinks you're wasting your time. The point I'm trying to make here is that in every Cinderella movie, the fairy godmother is someone who sees the spark in Cindy even in the darkest of despair. She not only encourages her, but helps her transform into the princess she is meant to be. Therefore, here is my little piece of advice for you: forget about yourself. I know it may seem strange, especially thinking that your fairy isn't the one who's future hangs in the balance, but this whole grad school process isn't just about you (no matter how much you want to argue with me about it). Forget about yourself, forget about the abyss, and forget about what your next steps are going to be. Your mission, should you choose to accept, is to go out and figure out who your fairy godmother is, then show them your gratitude. Let's face it, you probably wouldn't be where you are without them, so stop trying to pretend otherwise. While your in the midst of stressing about life, they are worrying about you. So go out, give them a hug, buy them their favorite coffee, and show them that you appreciate them! It's not that difficult. Especially since they've had to put up with your abysmal bootie throughout this entire process...plus, better to do this now while you're sitting around doing nothing and staring into the abyss than later down the line when your stressed, panicked, and screaming at your self conscious to finally clean out your closet. So, here is to you, my fairy friend! And here is to all those other fairy godmother's out there who are about to get a amazing surprise. I hope this weekend is great for you all and I hope to hear from you all soon. Thanks for reading! K. P.S. I GOT MY FIRST FAN MAIL THE OTHER DAY!!!! YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!! WOOHOO! I feel special! P.P.S. For those dedicated readers, you probably know about my #SpreadTheLove post I plan on doing in February. It's my idea that since we are all on our way to a higher education (or attempting to be at least), to participate or spread the word about some amazing organizations that are trying to raise money to educate the children of other countries. Please take a few seconds to vote on one of the organizations you would want to see some support for, and please, please, please help me get the word out by sharing it on social media! Let's help future generations get the education they deserve. #SpreadTheLove
  9. KayAnne14

    #SpreadTheLove

    Ladies and gentlemen, With almost a month until the infamous Valentine's day, it got me thinking a bit about not only my situation, but other people's. While I'm sitting here in the abyss awaiting the results of the hunger games we like to call the "grad school process," my heart understands that not everyone gets such an opportunity. Therefore, rather than being depressed over my relationship status (or lack there of), I've decided to do a little project. Nothing huge, but just trying to spread the word and, if I'm lucky and my writing reaches a few more people by then, make even the smallest of differences. Here's what I want you to do: Vote in my poll. Simple, right? That's all it will take to help me decide on my future Valentine's day #SpreadTheLove post. So please, please, please, take a second to vote (and if you really wanna help, look at the websites given). I hope to hear from you soon and stay tuned for my next post, Finding Your Fairy Godmother (title will be explained in the post to come, of course). Have a great night, K.
  10. KayAnne14

    The Thing That Shall Not Be Named...

    Reading these comments truly makes my day!! Who cares if I have to keep saying it. S, I look forward to your analysis of such a great (if not historically accurate) movie and I can't wait to hear about it. And while I have seen some of the X-men movies...I don't think I've seen that one, but good job! I'm proud of you!! As for the adventures, can I just say "same here!"? I can't wait to hear where you end up a few months from now!! Cn0rd, I'll be sure to keep them in mind and look back a few years from now. As for the tags...Princess Diaries reference right there, folks!!!! So glad I'm not the only fan of that movie!! But if you ever get whisked away into royalty...take me with you! Hahaha just kidding (sort of). Btw, I connect with both of you in more ways than you know. One of my side projects that I began during my undergrad career is over the legend and memory of Robin Hood and the things I do for research are both astonishing and incredibly boring at times but I love every minute of it. I hope to hear from you both in the future and I hope you enjoy reading my new blog, Ready As I'll Ever Be! After all, it's because of you guys that I was requested to start it! Thanks so much for reading!! Until next time, K.
  11. KayAnne14

    So, you've entered the abyss...

    Well, all you lovely readers you, Thanks to your suggestions and amazingly encouraging comments, I thought that you all should be the first to know that I have started up my own blog on TheGradCafe! I would be incredibly honored if you checked out Ready As I'll Ever Be and shared with your friends who need the little pep in their grad steps! Thanks for everything and I hope to hear from all of you amazing people soon! Thanks, K.
  12. KayAnne14

    The Trail We Blaze

    Hello my amazing fans and readers (if there are any), Welcome to my first blog post...ever! I know, I can't believe it either but here it is. So, as I was thinking about what to write and what people would actually want to take time out of their busy schedules to read, it brought me back to how this whole journey got started. While that was true, I've decided (after a few seconds of debate with my inner workings of my crazy mind) we aren't going to talk about that today. Why? ...because I kind of don't want to right now. Also, because I feel like those of you thinking of entering the process have your own idea of what it's like and honestly, you aren't too far off. What most people don't know is what happens after. That's where I come in! So, what happens after you apply, you ask? You get to be one of the many lucky people that get to enter into the abyss (note: connection to past post that got me started in the first place...see what I did there?). The abyss, for those new readers here, is a whole lot of...well, you guessed it, nothing. Now, nothing can be both good and bad. For those unlike me, you get a lot of stuff done. For example, you completely reorganize your room, you get to finish your undergrad career, you get to pretend to have a life outside of work. However, for those like me, the story is a little bit different. You, my fellow compatriots, get to be engulfed in self pity, you get to be unhinged due to nerves, and you begin questioning the meaning of life. If you think I'm exaggerating, think again! I could mention having a back up plan being formed in this time frame (it should be, by the way), but I've already written about that as well. So what happens in the abyss between self loathing and thinking about every possible contingency scenario? A whole lot of nothing. This is something you're going to be doing a lot of during this little waiting period between applying and hearing back with a decision. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. The reason why I'm writing about absolutely nothing is because it gives people a way to talk it out with someone other than that little voice in your head. That little voice that is beyond annoying and doesn't know the definition of the term "shut up". However, while the self loathing is almost inevitable during this time, there's also a small spark. If you're open enough to seeing it, that is. This spark reminds you of your true passions, whether it's what you plan to go to grad school for or something else entirely. This little spark allows you to see the path that you were meant to take and this little spark also reminds you of why you started. It's this moment that truly starts your journey into the future and it is this spark that will lead you to happiness. For some, it's barely visible. I'm a part of this group, sadly, but I know it's still there. For others, you get to be encompassed in a fiery blaze of glory and accomplishment. (Again, lucky you.) So enjoy it, no matter what group you're a part of. Enjoy the abyss because it's only in the darkest of times that one is able to see even the smallest amount of light. Follow your own path and enjoy every step of the journey because nothing easy is hardly ever worth achieving in the end. So, my fellow readers, welcome to the abyss and enjoy the darkness. I hope to hear from you all soon and thank you so much for reading. To all of you out there, I can't wait to see/hear how your journey ends. Sincerely, K.
  13. KayAnne14

    The Thing That Shall Not Be Named...

    Dearest Sseire, Let me just say that reading your comments have made my day!! I'm so glad that I have a fan like you and thank you so much for reading! It means the world to me to know that I'm actually getting through to people. BTW, I did in fact have to look up what a demoticist was...can I just say how cool that sounds?!?! Okay, I have a question for you then: in The Mummy (with Brendan Fraser of course, not that new Tom Cruise s..tuff), how accurate is what they are saying versus what they probably should be saying or is the Egyptian in the movie pretty accurate?? You don't know how long I've wanted to know the answer to this question... Also, even though I'm sure you're going to be an amazing Egyptologist (are they even close to similar?? Study of Egypt vs. the study of the ancient hieratic Egyptian language..), I'll be sure to hold you to that coffee one day! Plus, let's be honest here, I don't have the patience to become a princess. They're tooooo....high maintenance...but that's just my mini opinion! I cannot wait to see what the world has to offer you and I hope that you keep in touch in some way, shape, or form! Thanks for your reading!! K. P.S. YOU READ THE TAGS?!?!?!? SOMEONE FINALLLYYYYYYY READS THE TAGS!!!! PRAISES!!!
  14. Only because "the thing no one wants to talk about yet everyone needs to think about at some point but no one wants to because it may seem like you're heading towards failure" was a bit long to be title worthy... Welcome back, guys and gals and all those lovely folks who have read my writing before...you know, in that one "blog" post... I hope everyone is having a great day! Why? Because I'm about to ruin it. I know, I'm such a horrible person, but it was bound to happen eventually. In my last post (So, you've entered the abyss...) I briefly discussed the idea of having a back up (or BU for those loyal readers out there...you know, the entire one of you). Well, now it is time for me to elaborate. This is the one thing that everyone who begins the grad school process must come across at some point, however briefly it may be. The truth of the matter is, though, this is going to be the path that some of us end up taking. I thought it best to bring it into the light. Now, the BU plan is different for everybody and doesn't have to be set on a single thing. For example, I'll use myself. While my graduate dream is to become the world's best and most well-known maritime archaeologist by the time I'm in my early 30s, I have a hugely different back up plan...12, in fact. What can I say? My OCD causes me to plan for multiple contingencies. After all, you never know what may happen! So, obviously, my next plan is to become a world renowned writer. Just kidding! While there may be one or two of you out there who are actually getting what little amusement you can out of my writing, it's not my next plan of action. A plan of action, yes. I wouldn't have a three or four half written books sitting on my computer for nothing if it wasn't. Apart from becoming some sort of writer, I may end up starting my own dessert food truck where all the fandoms can unite in the form of your new favorite desserts. (And before you ask, I do have baking experience. I used to be a dessert baker at a local...well, that's beside the point.) If that doesn't work out, I'll go work in a museum somewhere, or maybe do an internship abroad, or, heck, I don't know, become a hard core princess of some small unheard of country! Although not every single one of those may seem attainable (the part about me becoming a writer part, because of course it's possible for me to become a princess), that's beside the point. The point is to have a plan. Any sort of plan, because any sort of plan is still some sort of plan. So, while you are starting to have that little inkling in the back of your head of something else that may seem a bit interesting to you, my advice: look into it. Entertain the idea of actually accomplishing it. That being said, however, don't let a simple back up plan distract you from your main goal. You've got it within your to get yourself where you need to be. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. At least now you know that you'll always have my vote of support. So now go! Go out and make your back up plan. If you don't get into grad school, then show the world just what you can do without it. Don't cut yourself down before you've even begun to fully stand up on your own two feet. Become the tree that rises towards the heavens and who's broken vines and branches have only made you stronger. If you get accepted into your dream program, that's amazing! But if not, then don't worry because there is something better out there for you, even if it takes you a little while to find it. I really wanted to end this little post on a high note so it wouldn't be so depressing, and I hope that I achieved that... Thank you for reading this far and I hope that one day I get to hear what your back up plan may or may not be. Be sure to stay in touch and good luck with all your future endeavors! Sincerely, K.
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