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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Feeling like Grad School is the end of my youth/young adulthood   
    I'm a 22 year old MA student doing it straight from undergrad and I feel like doing this is the end of my youth. In my class, I enjoyed the discussion but I have some folks much older than me like starting their PHD and already working for years now or being married/have kids and since they are my peers, I feel like I'm in the same life stage as someone in their late twenties/early thirties onward and I feel so old compared to undergrads(sophomore-seniors or 18-22 year olds) and I can't relate/am not in the same life stage and it makes me feel like my youth is over. Like I want to make friends and all which will be harder due to Covid and wouldn't mind my own age range. How can I deal with this as it's bothersome
       
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from Boolakanaka in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    In late 30s, you're too old for undergrad students, stick with grad students 
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I think its silly to compare a 22 year old fresh out of undergrad hanging out with people literally in their own age vs someone whose been out for like years and is clearly with folks younger and more immature
    I mean, for someone fresh out,  life phase would not be an issue and dating undergrads who aren't sophomores is fine
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I'll reaffirm that I've heard different opinions
    and second, thanks for being condescending
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    Also tbh, I ask mainly in regards to hanging out as I do have a fear/anxiety that this means the end of my youth and I feel so old compared to people in the undergrad age range
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from Boolakanaka in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I'll reaffirm that I've heard different opinions
    and second, thanks for being condescending
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    22 dating 20 isn't weird?
    I mean 20 dating 16 is wrong cuz its an adult dating a minor, I wouldn't say its comparable to that
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from Boolakanaka in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    22 dating 20 isn't weird?
    I mean 20 dating 16 is wrong cuz its an adult dating a minor, I wouldn't say its comparable to that
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from dancewmoonlight in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    22 dating 20 isn't weird?
    I mean 20 dating 16 is wrong cuz its an adult dating a minor, I wouldn't say its comparable to that
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from dancewmoonlight in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    In late 30s, you're too old for undergrad students, stick with grad students 
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from PokePsych in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I think its silly to compare a 22 year old fresh out of undergrad hanging out with people literally in their own age vs someone whose been out for like years and is clearly with folks younger and more immature
    I mean, for someone fresh out,  life phase would not be an issue and dating undergrads who aren't sophomores is fine
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I see but as I mentioned, I have seen many folks also say its fine and no one sees the undergrad as taking advantage or the grad as dipping down
    and how many straight from undergrad nabbed them
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    In late 30s, you're too old for undergrad students, stick with grad students 
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from Boolakanaka in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I am not ignoring, I'm just saying I have heard other reactions elsewhere and like more than 9 people have saids its fine/no one will care and in my personal experience, no one had an issue 
    Nah haven't met anyone, just wondering if I should consider it
    It's only been 4 people as well
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from Epsy in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I see but as I mentioned, I have seen many folks also say its fine and no one sees the undergrad as taking advantage or the grad as dipping down
    and how many straight from undergrad nabbed them
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from Epsy in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I think its silly to compare a 22 year old fresh out of undergrad hanging out with people literally in their own age vs someone whose been out for like years and is clearly with folks younger and more immature
    I mean, for someone fresh out,  life phase would not be an issue and dating undergrads who aren't sophomores is fine
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from Epsy in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I am not ignoring, I'm just saying I have heard other reactions elsewhere and like more than 9 people have saids its fine/no one will care and in my personal experience, no one had an issue 
    Nah haven't met anyone, just wondering if I should consider it
    It's only been 4 people as well
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I am not ignoring, I'm just saying I have heard other reactions elsewhere and like more than 9 people have saids its fine/no one will care and in my personal experience, no one had an issue 
    Nah haven't met anyone, just wondering if I should consider it
    It's only been 4 people as well
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    PhantomThief got a reaction from GradSchoolGrad in Is dating/hanging out with undergrads who aren't freshman seen as weird/creepy   
    I mean you mentioned it was inappropiate in your response though
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