Hi there,
I’m sorry you’re going through this — it sounds incredibly tough, and unfortunately, not uncommon, especially for international students. You’re definitely not alone.
A few things that may help:
Document everything: Keep records of emails, missed deadlines, and meeting notes. It’s useful if you ever need to escalate formally.
Talk to your second supervisor or PGR coordinator: If you have one, they can often act as a buffer or advocate.
Use support services: Most universities offer counseling, ombudspersons, or graduate advocacy services — don’t hesitate to reach out.
Look for alternative mentorship: Even if unofficial, try building relationships with other faculty who might support your research or career goals.
Funding: If you're thinking of going around your supervisor for funding, check if there are internal grants, travel funds, or external fellowships that don’t require supervisor sign-off.
You’re doing incredibly well to keep pushing forward in such an environment. Please don’t let this experience define your worth or ability. Keep going — you deserve to finish strong. 💪