Hey all, just discovered this discussion a couple nights ago and its been really helpful- I'm also on that limbo list, bla.
I'm kind of late with this but just to confirm, I got this reply from an email to the NSF media person: "Yes, there will be ARRA funds for NSF's GRF program. Please keep checking http://www.nsf.gov/recovery, where we will update our plans for the ARRA funds as soon as we can." which was comforting in a vague way.
I've been told the HM status is considered a notable accomplishment and people do include it on their CVs. I decided to only send thank you cards/cookies at the end of this whole process- I feel bad now! I don't think doing it twice would be over the top though, you might just have to ask again in the future..