A question from a 30+ lesbian who is thinking of accepting an offer from a university in Ithaca.
I know the place has a reputation for being super gay-friendly, but I can't stop worrying that being a remote small town with thousands of undergrads it won't offer much in terms of socializing for a single gay woman my age.
I know it shouldn't be my priority when choosing a program, but being lonely and miserable with no chance of finding companionship for half a decade is not an appealing thought.
I am hoping someone here can allay my fears because the program is a great fit. So are my concerns valid or am I worrying for nothing?
