I am currently a 1st year Ph.D student and used grad cafe last year...so as I was reminiscing about how a year had already passed since I was accepted I decided to take a look at Grad Cafe. That being said, I decided to post to help alleviate some of the anxiety everyone is having (completely understandable).
I applied to nine schools last year: SUNY Albany, UMass Amherst, Princeton, Yale, Rutgers, Graduate Center CUNY, Columbia, UConn, and NYU. I have to say that anyone who has hears back this week or next is receiving relatively EARLY notifications...so fear not. And usually if you hear now, it is an acceptance or rejection. The next few weeks are usually additional "cuts." Last year at this time I had heard back from three schools: 2 acceptances and 1 rejection. Hope this helps.
One note to UPenn applicants- a good friend of mine applied last year and they were pretty late (late March) in responding with a rejection.
Hope this helps. I may occasionally check Grad Cafe (during work breaks ) to see if anyone has any questions. Good Luck! And it is okay to check 10 times a day- I did and got my wanted acceptance notification at work!