delusionalized

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought graduate programs don't value LoRs writted by graduate students? In some cases it may hurt you even? I would approach X to write for me too, if not for the fact that she's not a professor, only a grad student. However, I've emailed X to ask her to check on the situation on my behalf, so I can tell if this is a 'rejection' or just a simple case of identity misunderstanding...

Hi, Can anyone help me with this confusing situation? I visited this prof during her office hours and she clearly agreed to write an LoR for me. She asked me to pass her more details. And today when I emailed her thanking her for agreeing to write the LoR, this is what she said "As for the letter of recommendation, I can't remember promising to write a strong letter of recommendation for you. But maybe X (my Teaching Assistant/Grad Student) did, she knows you better than I do." I'm not sure how t reply her. I would really want to have her write it, as I dont really have anyone else in mind. Not sure if she forgot who I am, and need some reminder, or should I just not pursue it?? please advise me on what to do ):