You're making the rest of us white guys look bad. Did you entertain the possibility that s/he simply wrote a better proposal than, you even though your scores on the rating sheets were the same? There are definitely high "Very Good" and low "Very Good" ratings. Apart from that, there isn't a direct 1-1 relationship between your ratings and the funding decision: even if you're in the same field, my understanding is that some raters are more difficult than others and that is taken into account when funding decisions are made.
I don't necessarily agree with parts of the review criteria, but if I don't get an award I won't hang myself on the quota cross.