I'm at the point in the process where I've finally accepted that there's nothing I can do but free-fall and so I appreciate the smallest gestures from departments re: acknowledging how anxiety-inducing this can be. "This isn't personal but we understand that it personally affects you" is a fine line to walk but one I'm always happy to see programs attempt. It's possible, of course, that I've hit the level of nerves where instead of being jumpy everything inside of me is incessantly calm.