Stay strong, love. I've been waitlisted at one, accepted to another but waitlisted for funding, and I have two more to hear from, the rest are rejections. Last year I was only waitlisted at one and rejected everywhere else. Nada happened. You're not alone, and it's frustrating. I've shed tears. I almost hate being stuck on the waiting list. It feels like they're saying, "hey, we like you, just not enough to let you in!"
I feel your pain.
"And books to distract? It has to be 'Possession' by A.S. Byatt. All about the crazy world of academia and research, love it!"
I thoroughly enjoyed that book as well! I think I was late in reading it. But, I'm a pretentious academic, I'm picky about contemporary literature.
Let's talk:
Who's applying? Where? Why?
Let's see:
Purdue because I applied last year and got waitlisted, so I'm hoping it might make a difference this year.
WashU because I would love to live in St. Louis and they have spectacular faculty.
LSU and UL because I love Louisiana, and I applied to LSU last year.
Mizzou, because the program looks good.
Albany, similar reasons as the first.
UC Riverside, I would love to live in Cali.
Your biggest fear about the application process?
That I won't get in and it will feel like I'm worthless and all that money will have gone down the drain.
Best/worst scenario if you don't get in anywhere?
Best...it's an excuse to go back to my original institution and slowly pursue another degree in French, and try to get a job teaching in France.
Worst...I'm stuck teaching in bureaucratic conservative community colleges for very little pay.
BOOKS great enough to DISTRACT us from this b.s.?
I haven't really had time with all the teaching...Why Women Have Sex.