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I think I was most surprised by the fact that I applied to a school (probably my second choice) with a December 1st deadline, and found out from my PI in February that I had been wait listed, and if I had other offers I should take them (talk about huge disappointment, but then again I never really expected to get in anywhere for whatever reason). Then, about a week ago, after hearing nothing for almost two months, the PI emailed me asking if I was still interested, I said sure since I hadn't made any decisions yet and was still waiting to hear back from my first choice anyways, and the next day he emailed me back saying that some of the faculty never intended to use their 'allotted' funded spots, he had talked to the department, and I ended up making the 'first cut' of applicants, full tuition waiver and 20k stipend. I think I'm still in shock. Crazy how things can change. I was also surprised how much said PI emailed me with enticing photos or stories in an effort to get me to accept the offer.
 
The biggest surprise I think was my disbelief when I saw the acceptance letter, especially since I know I didn't put forward my best application since one of my LOR's went on sabbatical a month early without telling me, and I ended up using an old coach since I couldn't find anyone else last minute. 
 
Having a good personal relationship with your PI can be the deal breaker or maker! 
 
On a side note- I usually emailed 2-3 PI's at each school I was interested in, and I was surprised that a lot of professors actually discuss who they get emails from with their colleagues, had one even say I came up over morning coffee (I emailed both profs, and one recommended me to the other- which I had already emailed anyways). A few of them emailed me back and said I heard you also emailed x professor, I think you two would be the perfect fit and maybe we could discuss cosupervising you. 

Got accepted off waitlist at my top choice yesterday!! there is still hope!