I got the NSF GRFP. Luckily! It was my third year applying. I would not have taken the STAR, but I would still like to know how my application is reviewed. Perhaps this seems selfish, but I should have been hearing back about both of them at the same time, so I think it is fair. Assuming I was awarded the STAR, I would have been able to put awarded but declined on my CV.
I guess I just don't understand why we are not still in the loop about the status of the application regardless of other funding. We put an exorbitant amount of time into the process, and we still deserve to know. Not being awarded the STAR because we received other funding I understand, but that fact should be communicated.
On the plus side for the you guys, our ineligibility should boost your chances of an award.