Ok, I'm frakking confused. So I applied to 4 PhD programs, got interviews at all of them and heard back from all but one (U Chicago) within two weeks of the interview. I waited around for U Chicago to reply for a few weeks, and then (since I really didn't like U Chicago anyway) gave up and accepted my offer to Yale. Today I got an email from U Chicago that said they THINK they can finally make me an official offer. I said no thank you, and thought that was that. Now I have this email asking me if I want to withdraw my application so they won't have to "reject" me. I am very confused.
So I figugre I probably should say yes, withdraw my application- but I don't really get why. Is there some kind of record that follows you around about which schools rejected, and which schools accepted you? Does it look bad if you're officially rejected from a school you didn't even want to go to (and who actually sort of accept you anyway?) I didn't even know this was something I had to worry about! Any advice? I kind of feel like they tricked me. Thanks!