I received my undergraduate degree at Stanford. Speaking from experience, there is very little to do in Palo Alto - a couple expensive bars and restaurants. Stanford is rather isolated, so without a car it will be difficult to do things off-campus. Stanford has a graduate student pub, but it's pretty lame (a number of students complained about the prevalence of drinking in the pub). There is also an on-campus eatery called the "Treehouse," but the food kind of sucks. At least they sell beer. It's difficult to get to San Francisco - it'll probably take about an hour by CalTrain or car. That aside, it's an excellent school, and the social sciences faculty are brilliant, dedicated, and involved. You won't have much time for non-academic activities, so Palo Alto's suckiness doesn't matter that much.