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  1. #How to politely refuse a potential offer.

    I have concluded my application. Although I am still waiting for official rejection from MIT but at some point I need to stop kidding myself. 

    I did two interviews (out of three programs I have applied so pretty good) and already accepted by school N and is 99% sure I will also get one from school P. However I already accept offer from N and need to refuse the potential offer from P. I found it a little hard to do because of the following.

    I am an international and P offered me a Skype interview at first. I told them I will be in States because of interview from N and hoped to visit on campus. They immediately offered me round trip flights to their city from the city of N. They also booked me two nights at Hilton Hotel. They actually spend more money on me than P (P has a $500 budget for flights and round trip from N to P cost more than $500 and P bought everything). Interview at N ends at Friday and interview at P is arranged the next Tuesday so I do not feel I did a bad thing 'cause I am not sure I will get into N before the interview (though I knew immediately after the interview). However I found it difficult to tell the coordinator in P that I am not coming. She told me they have an event in March so I expected the offer comes after that. What should I do? Tell her they do not need to consider me now or wait for the offer and click decline silently?

  2. 38 minutes ago, csphdapplicant123 said:

    And if you think about it, the concept of rate does not even make sense. They do not determine how many to recruit based on how large is the pool, they determine by funding. So if one year only a few people applied, you will think MIT's accept rate is very high. Am I right?

  3. 2 minutes ago, aksiksi said:

    700 total, right? No just EECS.

    700 just EECS is crazy. However, I know they give acceptance first and then decide on fundings. And I heard stories that someone eventually could not go because did not get funding. Is it normal?

  4. So I want to ask if it is proper for me to ask the school for a fly-out ticket. The situation is that I am an international and university in NY already bought my international round trip tickets. Today I got email from Pittsburgh and originally invite me for an skype interview. After I told them I will be in the states they offered an on campus interview. The person was very kind and directed me to book tickets through their agency. However it was not very clear from our conversation whether they can cover both fly-in and fly-out. I will fly from NYC to Pittsburgh and I am not planning to directly fly back to NYC since I will still be in the states for over a week. I plan to go to Philly (for fun) next. I did not realize it was a long trip to Pittsburgh to Philly. I mean, is it proper for me to ask them cover a fly out to Philly?

    Scratch that. They were actually planning to pay my flight back to NYC. Philly should be cheaper.

    And sorry for added one more floor below.

  5. 59 minutes ago, Pink Fuzzy Bunny said:

    Man guys, I've already emailed Cornell twice since I was admitted two days ago. I'm not even there yet and I'm sure they're already regretting admitting me :P

     

    Update: they e-mailed me back and kindly reminded me that I am not the center of the universe, and told me to chill my butt. Sorry :P

    What did you say? "Dear Madam/Sir, Am I the center of the Cornell Universe?"

  6. 5 minutes ago, csphdcandidate said:

    When are we going to hear anything from MIT? Today? Tomorrow? Already got rejected by Stanford.

    Last year was Feb 4th Wednesday. So technically we should hear yesterday :). But the year before is much much later. 

  7. 19 minutes ago, Justwaitingforneuro said:

    Yes, Basel citizen. I am still waiting... Should hear back either for an interview or get rejected this week, since interviews are 11th and 12th of February according to the course website. How is yours going?

     

    Going to NYC on Monday and just got another interview in UPitts and waiting for the arrangements. Other than that I am waiting for MIT but that is basically day dreaming.

  8. 12 minutes ago, sjoh197 said:

    All politicians bite. It will actually really depend on what part of America you are going to, as to what kind of people will be there. I think a lot of international people (not necessarily students) don't always realize just how large and diverse America is. They all see us as fat, bumbling, gun loving, burger eating, idiots. But The north, south, midwest, west coast... very different mindsets and people. Silicon valley and the chicago ghetto are very different.

    I live in Houston right now... and a lot of people think "Texas" = guns, cows, religious conservatives, etc. But it's actually really liberal here. Lots of diversity, decent sized LGBTQ (add whatever other letters are there now) community, etc. Some Americans do indeed bite.... but there are also a lot of friendly open minded ones. 

    As a foreigner who happen to into US politics but can only obtain information from CNN, NBC (and maybe FOX alright). I do find "liberal Texas" sounds weird. But I guess it is Houston.

  9. On 2/3/2016 at 1:23 PM, sqxz said:

     

     

    As of two years ago, applicants were admitted to either CMU or Pitt, not both. Based on their applications (faculty interests, research interests, etc.), all applicants were assigned to either CMU or Pitt. The interviews for the CMU applicants were separate from those of the Pitt applicants, and acceptances for the two schools were sent at different times. Two years ago, the CMU dates were weeks in advance of the Pitt dates. It looks like there are now three entries in the results for this year, two interview invites and one acceptance. I'd say the acceptance is probably for CMU, and the interview invites are probably for Pitt. If you don't hear something soon, I think it's probably safe to assume a rejection.

    So I actually got an skype interview invitation from Pitts just now.

  10. On 2/2/2016 at 5:27 PM, aksiksi said:

    So if we don't hear anything this week, assume a rejection? That's what happened last year it seems.

    Well you need to first hear somebody else hear it. Based on last year if you hear a massive amount of people accepted then I think it is a rejection.

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