harried

This is exactly the topic I wanted to discuss. I am still waiting on two schools, but as it stands I am choosing between three. School A: Terrible town. Admittedly terrible by graduate program director. But, the director was super complimentary regarding my work. I mean that beyond mere flattery--I mean excited to work with me. Offered one of the best packages all around (so far.) School B: Town I can live in. And I am bringing my S.O. also and so terrible towns are a no go. Great program, but did not offer a stipend. This is not good for a private school with high tuition. Was ready to dismiss on this basis, but have begun receiving personal emails from SEVERAL professors in the program, expressing interest in my work. that is a really good sign for a program, no? But, still....the cost. School C: Town I really really want to live in. Program has most esteemed faculty and one faculty member that is a dream fit. But, the program seems a little formal. Rigid almost. And this I am basing on the fact that no one has made personal contact. I received a letter with a complicated package. No email. No call. I'd love to justify moving here and getting what looks to be a great education, but I can't see that its the best fit. I'd love to be able to go visit, but its far and I can't afford it. What to do??? they all have something I want. Secure package, great town, engaged faculty--but all components are separated! eek!