Thanks MSW (and all) for the free therapy <3 We have decided to go to Boston, and he will begin looking for jobs up there. But we did discuss this ^, that this is the first real big decision we've had to make together, and will be the first of many in a life together. He's being very selfless to move up there with me. Now soliciting ideas (new ones for a couple that has been together for a long time) to show how much I really appreciate and treasure him...