The question we all have, and the one I wanted more evidence of, is are we going to lose our positions or funding if we don't accept now? That is sort of what @OhMy READ THIS was suggesting, and I have seen some evidence that this is the case for some schools, but not most of them. @A Dalek is suggesting the same thing, so I guess I am asking if that is this going to be a mad dash to fill positions, or can I afford to wait to get off a waitlist?
I feel like this is the crux of our argument, but the one thing no one is willing to say out loud, only insinuate (perhaps for a good reason, I will admit). I sincerely appreciate anyone who can help us here. A special thanks to @A Dalek for giving us some insider information.