I hear ya. Private school tuition is insanity. It really is!
At this point, I'm just trying to pick the school that'll help me find paid AND fulfilling employment after I graduate. All of the programs I'm interested in require a summer practicum abroad, which means I won't be able to earn money working at, for example, a restaurant in the U.S. The two summer practicums are included in Emory's total cost (about 61k). That includes airfare, housing, etc. All I'd need to do is find a subletter for my TBD housing. The Tulane program doesn't seem to include the (one) practicum in its costs. I'm sure, however, they'd try to help me get at least part of it funded by the school (still, that's no guarantee). I know for a fact that some of the current MDP students at Emory work on and off campus during the regular academic year, so that helps. And I bet Tulane students do as well (though, I don't know for sure).
One thing that worries me about Emory/Atlanta is snobbiness that may come along with attending a 'prestigious' school. I'm pretty down to earth and I absolutely hate pressure-cooker, mightier-than-though environments. I grew up in DC so I'm quite convinced I know what I'm talking about. I was pleasantly surprised with the warmth of those associated with the Emory MDP program. I realize it can't as laid back as Austin (where I currently reside), but I'd imagine it can't be as bad as DC, right?! There must be a couple of hundred progressive, quirky, open-minded, grassroots-type people in Atlanta, right?! Hmmm, I guess I'm getting off topic...