Ok, I've just read this entire thread and it's amazing how much of a guessing game the whole process is. Especially when you take my applications and success rate into account. Part of me thinks I'm lucky, but actually, how lucky can you really get? I think I've done something right, although I couldn't tell you what. All I know is, I can tell you what's totally wrong with my application according to this thread, and yet, I've gotten into over half of the programs I applied to, all great programs, and I was waitlisted in two top 15 programs...
Gre's are horrible. I was sick when I took them, couldn't find parking, ran a mile to get there on time, (literally, relay for life was going on when I had to take them and I had to run a mile or so in the race because all streets were blocked ) So yea, Verbal=sub-600, and math...well, you can forget it. I crashed and burned.
I come from an average private institution. I had an okay overall GPA, but a very high major GPA.
So for me, I don't think this was a numbers game at all. If it were I would've lost the game a long time ago, but honestly, I can't see how I'm the only applicant they've decided not to count numbers with...
That being said, I had a bomb writing sample. I mean I'm very proud of it. My LOC's are awesome. They're like my family and well known in their respective fields. My SOP is focused, straight forward, I discussed relevant theorists, listed relevant questions, I'm a creative writer also, so I discussed how that sets me apart (coming from both the writer and critique perspective), and so on. Oh, and I made sure that all of these pieces fit together. I didn't have a writing sample about one thing, and an SOP highlighting something completely different. It all fit together as a package. I don't intend to be arrogant (please, please no evil eyes!), I simply think that this is what made my application successful, and I hope that it's helpful information for anyone looking to try again. I do hope you will, because you sound like you could do wonderful work. Basically you know your weaknesses so sell your strengths!