Thanks for the post. As irritating and stressful as this situation is, I'm thrilled that I have multiple choices.
Here's some more information if it helps out at all. I did the initial post after studying for an OChem exam and was super drained. Anyway, here goes.
Over the weekend I visited all three campuses. Here's my thoughts:
UT Arlington: landlocked, not very impressed with the campus, and the department/classrooms seemed to essentially be in am office building. Pretty much the exact opposite of what I'm use to at Undergrad. Also, I noticed that I couldn't pronounce any of the TA or professor's names. Now don't get me wrong, I don't have a racist bone in my body; however, all the GTAs in the program are apparently older and of Indian or Eastern Asian heritage. Now again, I have nothing against any particular culture or heritage, but I just don't know how well I'd be able to connect to a 30+ year old Indian or Chinese man. Or even a 30 year old white man, to be fair. I left UT Arlington fairly disappointed at the age/ethnicity gap, but mostly at the age gap.
UT Dallas: looked like an awesome campus. It was really spread out, nice and clean and new looking. The building with the Stats classrooms/department was awesome and really eye appealing. It reminded me much more of my undergrad campus. I have no idea what the demographic breakdown of the department is but I assume it's probably not dissimilar from UTA's.
SHSU: great campus. I hate to say it, but I liked the campus a lot. Seems like a really good place. Don't know much about demographics there.
Now I visited these places yesterday, so naturally everything was closed and there weren't any faculty on site. But I am visiting Sam tomorrow afternoon to actually see the campus in action.
I feel as though this is a conflict of what my soul longs for and what the logical side of me thinks is right. Logically, it makes sense to go to a school where I can teach (one my biggest passions), and it's literally free to go there.
But I'm from Houston, and my soul is demanding that I leave and get out. I have always liked DFW, and I want to end up there some day. But it's more expensive there.
It's all very irritating, and I kind of wish I could have some kind of sign...thanks for the advice, I'd be interested to hear if you have anything else with a little more knowledge about me/my experience on campus.
I'm typing this on my iPhone, so I apologize in advance for errors or just plain silliness.