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DoggieMom

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  1. Got rejected from a school I really wanted to get into and this is how I feel:

    Like nothing. Not smart. Not intelligent. Who was I kidding? Maybe my UG professors inflated my grades and gave me straight As for... I don't know why, but whatever, it doesn't matter if they think/thought I'd be a good scholar. It doesn't matter how much damn work I've put into what I do so far. It doesn't matter that I love this field and the work I do in it. This program, and at least four others like it (though it's not official yet), don't understand that, and don't care, and don't want me in their program.

    ARGH.

    I empathize with you completely. After 7 straight rejections (including 2 I was SURE I was a lock to get in) I felt exactly the same way. In my case, I was lucky enough to get into a program I loved. But to emphasize what a crap-shoot this all is, I was accepted into one of the most competitive programs in the country, but was rejected from 2 programs that are not nearly as competitive, or well-regarded, or honestly that good. Go figure?

    I think a lot of it is luck with who makes up the committee on a give year. Or reads your app on a given day. Hang in there.

  2. A little away from PhD programs, but I know of a student who applied to Vet School and was rejected, and then was called right before classes started to join the program because someone had withdrawn and they had no one left on the waitlist to fill the spot!

    And apparently that has happened a few times.

    Conversely, there have also been cases when too many people accepted, the yield was too high, and they UN-accepted some students because they couldn't handle the numbers!

  3. I have a friend applying as the same time as I am so didn't want to post my first acceptance in deference to them. They just posted themselves without telling me and got a fair amount of positive response. Now I feel silly for having waited, but would rather not say anything for now. I think I will wait until I hear back from some more programs (positively or negatively) before I give an update. I just don't see the point of posting every decision. A bit of a semi-rant here. Sorry.

  4. Get a P.O. box as soon as you get to the U.S. (you will need to show up in person) and then notify the schools you applied to. You can probably also tell the schools now not to use your old address.

    Don't worry about what they think, the adcoms aren't going to care. This is strictly a administrative issue.

  5. Austin is 8 hours away from LSU... and I really don't want to go to LSU. I suppose if I'm forced to, I will, but I would find that distance of a relationship very hard to maintain. I'm not saying its impossible, but very hard...

    Sometimes a LDR is a good thing while in grad school. Less guilt over being apart while studying = more focus in school. Then when you do visit each other, the time is cherished even more. Just something to think about.

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