Visit question

[natofone]

For those that have attended visitation weekends and met with the DGS or pertinent faculty, have they specifically asked you about which other programs you have offers from? Is this common?

[Wesson]

Yep, that's common. Some come right out and ask while others dance around the point, but they want to know. If the other programs have some attributes relative to the one you're visiting, it's generally in your interest to provide the information when asked. Nothing makes your stock rise in a DGS's eyes like knowing other people want you. In some cases, they'll even sweeten the offer.

[gsams]

I was asked quite directly while visiting last week. I responded with an equally direct answer. Not only did I note another Big State School, but also a big rival in that region (the guy loved basketball and football and I am a sports nut). I am up for a fellowship and I would like to do anything I can to explain to them that they are my top pick, but right now without the fellowship, the other BSS is offering more money (even though this school is a way better fit and I would be very, very happy here).

[Tan]

I must have met with at least 13 professors in the 3 schools I visited, and I'd say at least 9-10 of them directly asked me what other schools I was considering. So this seems very common. What was less predictable was professors' reaction - between those who immediately bash the schools you mentioned and those who have a more balanced approach.