I so could relate on this journey. I narrowed it to SFAI and Hunter. I'm flying this monday to check SFAI out for a week. I know most people think Hunter is the logical choice granted that I live in north jersey and work in NYC as a art handler,plus its NYC, and Hunter is relatively cheap. But its curriculum is centered on the Formalist/Modernist thought-but its cultural diversity balances it out that they are open to an alternative aesthetic.
But this city has gotten me so jaded with the pretentiousness, and the back stabbing horror stories that involve the art world. That SFAI sounds so inviting,granted I am a big fan of the Mission School Art movement,the California Funk movement,and Enrique Chagoya...its just sweet! How could a true Alternative be so expensive! But NYC is still NYC. There is absolutely nothing like it, you have the Chelsea,Soho,lower east side,and Brooklyn art scene. But I hate that time does not exist here...its so fast.