Nubbin
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My friend is moving out of state with her boyfriend in 2 weeks, she wants to hang out before she goes... I really don't think I feel like talking to her or seeing her. What am I supposed to tell her?
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Good for you sticking with therapy. Other good news is understanding when jealousy is getting the better of you and limiting interaction when that happens. I hope you can eventually look at people who have what you want as potential models. You might learn from how they navigate successful relationships. Don't avoid people who have what you want altogether. Good luck.
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My friend is moving out of state with her boyfriend in 2 weeks, she wants to hang out before she goes... I really don't think I feel like talking to her or seeing her. What am I supposed to tell her?
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Scarvesandcardigans gives good advice for a diplomatic, "easy out" answer. BUT, in the bigger picture, if you limit your friendships to only people who don't have the things you are wanting for yourself - in your case, a boyfriend, marriage, a baby - you are going to have few friendships. There will always be people who have more than you, just as there will always be those who have less. You've addressed your jealousy issues before, and I hope you are actively working on them...
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