I know this topic has been thrown out there a lot, but when I look at the threads, I keep seeing a blend of MA and PhD students from diverse subjects of study, so I'm not sure how relevant all of it is to me. So here's the gist of things. I'm a first year bio PhD student, I've been sick a lot this semester on top of focusing on a rotation in a lab that I really, really like. I've pulled a 3.5ish GPA with 2 As, 2 B+s, and 1 B (in a class where I scored above the median for all but two assignments). I've seen the posts float around that that's a very mediocre GPA, and that Bs are subpar in graduate school, so I'm a little worried that I'm not doing so hot, even though it didn't really seem like I was doing badly at the time. When I asked my faculty adviser, he pretty much said my grades don't matter as long as I pass (above 3.0 overall), so the discrepancy is somewhat confusing. I'm most worried about this knocking me out of the loop for fellowships that I'm considering applying for, though funding is actually not an issue in my program.
Basically, I want to have some idea of how well or meh I did (I know it's not bad), and whether I should be concerned about anything. Also, I'm kinda wondering how to approach the prof that gave me a B, because he'll be teaching another class I'm taking next semester, and I really don't want to bust my butt and wind up with a B again. I was considering just asking him at the beginning of the class what his expectations were, since I don't want to make a bad impression and come off as a grademonger by asking now, but any opinions would be welcome.