Thanks everybody! Honestly, all of my programs were my top choices. They all have very positive things to them. I only wanted to apply to my top choice programs, so it is really difficult to rank them.
I emailed the admin folks for my programs and just asked what the timeline was like, not about me in specific. In the end, I was told to email the PhD director for two of the programs to check in. So, I would start with the admin person and see what they say and go from there. I don't think it will harm your chances any; unless you demand to know specifically where you are on the list!