I've been lurking for a while, but just HAD to jump in here.
BTW, Harvard senior heading to Macau on a Fulbright next year.
Rahkan, maybe you are right, maybe the ruthless, cut-throat, sell-a-kidney mentality is what's required to succeed these days. These self-serving behaviors are the basis of the philosophy of our current economic consumption/production system: If we all act self-interestedly, the market will take care of itself and of us, and the benefits of prosperous economic growth will be enjoyed by the multitudes of the community and the nation. Paupers will enter the middle class. Innovations will lead to inventions that better our lives. The very attributes you praise in mkurti are the same characteristics that get bankers, consultants, and business leaders promoted. But as is becoming more evident day in and day out, this sense of self-entitlement, me-first-gimmie-gimmie radical individualism embodied by corporate and political leaders is leading to the destruction of the rainforests, the dumping of toxic wastes into our water sources and our atmosphere, the exploitation of the labor of our fellow humans in China (and elsewhere), and complete economic and social ruin the globe over are becoming palpable consequences. And for what? All for the bottom-line of corporations bent on increasing share-holders' profit margins above any other considerations. It's a disaster.
mkurti may be an admirable non-conformist, a stellar scholar, and a model e-community member, but if her posts are indicative of the information available to the panelists who decided her dire fate, I would say she made a fatal flaw. She was too self-entitled, too sure, and too demanding. I see she must have called the IIE office a hundred times. If one is to do to the very best, to come out on top, she should have learned from leaders like Nike and hidden the source of her success. Nike has iron-clad doors on its sweatshops. Not only does this lead to deplorable fatalities in events such as fires, but also prevents muckraking journalists, academics, or labor organizers from threatening its corporate image and utter market domination. mkurti should have put an iron door on her entitlement, her connections (which she almost certainly got help with via her famous father), and her cunning, and instead put some more effort into her personal branding (Phil Knight has written books on this).
The true warrior in today's day and age must infiltrate the Fulbright commission in a Trojan Horse. Appear as a curiosity, a humble, cute scholar, and hide the warrior within.