My MA adviser, who is sooo sweet and so helpful 99.9% of the time, kept putting it off and putting it off and putting it off until the very last moment (i.e. 2 weeks before it was due and literally a day before I went to Boston for a week right after Christmas). She's in the UK and I'm in the US and I was very patient and did everything that she told me to do but when she wasn't responding to me after I held-up my end of the bargain, I finally had to throw my hands up in the air in a state of panic and dread and had another recommender write-in for me from an internship (and she also happens to be a Philosophy Professor so that helped for a 2 for 1) :wink: . When my adviser finally wrote me back I told her very politely that I had someone else do it because I thought that she had forgotten or become bogged down with other things (as she had so many times indicated that she was "SOOOOO BUSY") and I apologised profusely because I was mortified and she was in a state of profound panic that she had missed a deadline (she had missed one and was about to miss another 2). It was a massive bust-up all-around and I felt really cheap asking another Professor/Superviser to write me a recommendation, but if I didn't, I would've dropped all my balls!
I appreciate the fact that professors have other students and other things going on in their lives, but with the advent of all of these things being on-line and being given 4-5 months notice, it seems a bit ridiculous that we're chasing them around in a state of total and absolute panic. (Or maybe that's just me...??!!) I had to write a recommendation for a student this semester and I got it done by the final exam and I *was* running around the department office the day of my student's final getting it into the envelope for her, so I'm not much better, but at least I got it together and it was really just a letter in support of an app for her to attend my alma mater.
Oi! Glad you got it worked-out though!!! That's good!