Thanks to all the advice. About language skills I have taken I do say I am native in both those languages because they are both my milk languages. Also thanks for the contacting of PIs. I decided I'm going to first apply for masters because after talking to my professors they both put me in contact with the heads of the Harvard, Columbia, and Princeton East Asian departments. I have a meeting with the Harvard one next Tuesday and I'm driving up to Cambridge on Saturday. I actually had a sit down with one of my LOR and my parents. I was really ill my sophomore year and my LOR actually visited me in the hospital and kept me company by arguing trilateral relations strategies for Korea, Japan, and USA I didn't realize he was a friend of my Dad's and I asked him why he never told me, his response was he didn't want me to think I would get special treatment so this guy is totally epic. I was really really afraid of disappointing everyone because my LOR really has become a mentor to me and without his support I don't think I would have the same opportunities I do now. We all came to a compromise, I am going to do East Asian studies masters and phd degree and instead of pure folklore I am going to research culture and history in regards to political legitimacy. I am quitting my job in a week and flying to China, Korea, and Japan in May where I plan to use my savings and hopefully apply for a grant to spend 18 months traveling around the three countries recording local folktales and myths and translate them into english and publish them into a gigantic anthology. Also this way I will collect lots and lots of books so when I die if I end up a professor after a lifetime in the foreign service I can contribute to the maintaing of academic knowledge. hooray for set futures!