biogirl2013

If you qualify for PhD programs/are a competitive applicant, and know for sure you want to do a PhD, go right for that.

At the very least, I think it's reasonable to ask St. Cloud when they will be making decisions on GAs, and indicate that it is information you need to consider when making your final choice on a program. At least knowing that timeline will help you figure out where you stand with them, and if you'll be able to wait on hearing the GA decision or will need to move forward not knowing that for a while.

Don't ever complain about being #2-- there's a number 3, 4, 5, etc. in line after you who would love even a shot at your spot. If the first choice turns it down, don't carry a chip on your shoulder about knowing you weren't the first choice. They still want you. Go, and prove that it was a great decision to admit you!

Agreed with TakeruK! Let them know by email (probably even better than phone, then you/they have it in writing) followed up with a paper form. (Let them know in the email that the paper form is in the mail.)

The two schools I've been accepted to and offered funding packages to that I could live with, are the two above. One just got me their decision on admissions and funding, and gave me only a week to reply (even before April 15th), meaning I have very little time to decide between two schools, one of which I hadn't know was an option until yesterday. Any thoughts on either of these schools/programs? Obviously there are many factors relevant to my own situation that I'm taking into account, but I'm hoping anyone can offer insights on: - what it's like to study in these programs - reputation of the programs - living in these aras - anything else you can add!! Thanks so much!

I can't speak about the departments academics, particularly, but I do know a bit about MSU and living in East Lansing. It's a large university and EL is very much a college town-- which means lots of resources on campus (which is also gorgeous, by the way, if you haven't visited) and in town (restaurants, entertainment, etc.) It also means that the closer you are to campus, the more expensive housing will be, and you will have to line it up sometimes almost a year before (but I'm talking close to campus-- if you're fine not being walking distance, you'll have better luck). From what I've heard the English department at MSU has a great reputation (but that's just from having attended that school for part of my undergrad-- I really can't compare to U of Oregon). p.s. hop on Craigslist and look up some apartment listings in both places to compare costs of living. Also, food is not very expensive in MI.

Remember: this is your life. You don't want to end up going to the less-ideal school just because it might be awkward to back out now. Honestly explain that you had a recent offer and funding come through, and ask to be released from your commitment to enroll. If you are straightforward and communicate this sooner than later, school B should be fine with it and it should not harm your reputation.

Unless there are real red flags, absolutely go with your gut feeling! I WISH I had a strong gut feeling about one of the two places I'm deciding between, haha! You most certainly want a program where you will feel comfortable working and studying.

1. "May you"? Technically yes, I'm sure there's nothing stopping you. Just be careful-- if word gets back to the original school that you're applying elsewhere, it may hurt your reputation, even if you end up still deciding to attend there. 2. That's a question for the program, and one you should absolutely feel comfortable asking, as it's a legitimate inquiry. There's no way for anyone else to really answer that, as there are many factors affecting funding and different sources for it.

There are reasons I haven't told my family any of the places I've applied. Even after I've made my decision, I'm not entirely certain I'll tell them the other places that admitted me, cause I really don't need their opinions...

Yep, most definitely get an answer to them! Academia and career circles are sometimes astoundingly small, and you don't want to hurt your reputation in ways that might come back to bite you, later on. Also like someone else mentioned, there are other people waiting for those spots you're turning down-- be considerate and turn down schools as soon as you have decided for sure that you won't attending. If you can log on to this site, you can find an email address for a program coordinator or department chair.

Yep, prestige won't matter so much as your opportunities to get great practical/clinical experience as part of your program. Go with the cheaper option, and the one that will get your better experience in line with your career goals. (I worked in social work for a number of years, and know many people with MSWs.)

Keep in mind that not hearing your decision-- especially if its clear that you have a strong interest in a different program-- means the schools can't offer that funding to other students. I'd be honest and let them know that you want to know all your options before making a decision so you can ensure that you're choosing the program that's the best fit... but be prepared that they might not be willing/able to give you extra time.