Even if I really think the guy likes me a lot?
The thing is, I'm pretty sure he found out about something about me (marijuana). Where I am from, this is a big deal to a lot of people. I am not sure where he stands on the issue and he hasn't said anything about it.
Addtionally, his spouse has suddenly started encouraging me to attend UC-Boulder, when before she had thought another program was a better fit.
Should I ask him directly if he can write me a positive letter? I really don't want to bring the issue about the pot up. There is a chance he did not find out about it.
Any opinions, based off of the few details I have provided?
Thanks!