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  1. I've seen a bit of advice on this thread about timing for a August/September lease, but I don't think this specific question has been answered. What's the best time between now and September to visit Boston/Cambridge on a house-hunting trip? I interviewed at Harvard last month and went a few days early to check out the city, so I have some ideas on where I want to live. I'm close enough that I can make another trip to house-hunt, so when should I go? When are the most/best houses available? I'm looking for a lease on a 1- or 2-bedroom in Cambridge/Somerville (to share with my boyfriend) starting in August or September. Also, how does one find out who the major realtors/agents are? Thanks a bunch!!

  2. congrats on your harvard acceptance, I suppose if we haven't heard back from them we should consider ourselves rejected?

    -rad

    Well I applied to Developmental at Harvard and they do their admissions somewhat separately (we had interviews, and I don't think other subfields do), so I don't think you would necessarily be rejected. Cognitive might just be on a different timeline?

  3. I'm in a somewhat similar position (higher ranked school likes me and has accepted me, lower rank school is obsessed with me and actively recruiting hard), and I'm trying not to let the flattery and attention from the lower-ranked school cloud my judgment. Obviously it feels good to have someone chasing me that hard, and I'm sure that would come with some benefits if I attended that school (more attention from profs, big fish in small pond, etc), but I'm trying to remind myself that that feeling is not going to last. They're not going to continue showering me with attention for the next five years, and I can't pick a school based on how good it makes my ego feel!

  4. I'd first ask the school that accepted you for an extension to their deadline. They should be happy to give you one, and it hopefully won't affect your funding chances. I'd also ask the other schools for an update on your status.

    If, however, you would risk losing the offer or the fellowship and you are very seriously considering going to this school, accept the offer and back out of it if you decide to go somewhere else in the end. As long as you back out before April 15, the school can't stop you. However, you might annoy your POI there so I would only do this as a last resort.

  5. Definitely find people to help you move your heavy stuff, and pay them if you have to. You can find people willing to do this on craigslist or just randomly; when we bought a huge TV like 15 years ago before there were flat screens, my dad went to the closest gas station and paid two guys $10 each to help carry it down to our basement.

  6. Here's one I haven't heard:

    How are you carrying your stuff around with you? My dilemma is that I'll be interviewing with six different people through the course of one day with lots of walking in between and a reception in the evening. I want to bring a smaller purse for convenience (room for a wallet, small notepad and pen, phone and a camera). I've heard that we should bring a few copies of our CV just in case, but I wouldn't be able to fit them without folding them in half. Should I suck it up and bring a larger, clunkier purse just so I can fit my nice resume folder, or should I just go CV-less?

    I've definitely never needed my CV at an interview so I don't know about that, but at most of my interviews they've given us each a folder with our schedule and other school/program info in it. I'm glad I had a fairly large purse so I could tuck the folder into it, instead of having to carry around multiple things.

  7. I think you may have been unclear about what aspects of the interview weekend your partner would be attending. If it's anything like the interview weekends I've been to, I think it would be quite strange and somewhat inappropriate for him to attend anything where professors are present (including social events). I'd probably find it much less inappropriate, although still a little bit strange, for him to be at events with grad students (tours, social events, etc). It makes sense that he'd like to see the place for himself if he's relocating with you, so if you just want him to come to town with you and he's planning on exploring the city/campus by himself, that's totally cool. If the department got the idea for whatever reason that you were asking for him to attend official events with you, I can somewhat understand the response you got (although the random-grad-student-emailing-you thing is pretty odd). Clarify exactly what you mean and see if they're receptive to that.

    As a side note, I don't agree that you should consider this email exchange as a big red flag without more information. This is a pretty small snag and could easily have just been a misunderstanding combined with a single bitter grad student. Go on your visit and get a feel for the department yourself!

  8. Thanks, rock.

    Would you call the other schools, telling them the situation, in order to get a quicker response from them? I picture, they already have a sizeable list of who to reject, but haven't gotten around to the rejection letter because they're still reviewing apps. On the other hand, maybe my acceptance at school XYZ will influence their decision negatively (because that's a slot for the next ranked applicant).

    You can ask about your status without actually telling them that you're accepted elsewhere... just tell them you're trying to arrange visits and would like to know the status of your application. If you need to press them more, mention that you live far away and knowing about your status would help you coordinate overseas flights. This won't really tell them whether you've been accepted or just interviewed elsewhere, and it certainly won't give them any specific info about programs.

    And for the school you're accepted to, they're not going to be at all offended if you wait a while to visit. All programs understand that we apply to multiple programs and they'll also understand your desire to do one big trip instead of lots of little ones. Just thank them sincerely for the acceptance and invitation to visit, and ask if it's okay to wait a few weeks to schedule your visit. You can be straightforward about wanting to do all your visits together (in fact, it'll probably save them some money if you can split up the flight costs between a couple of programs).

  9. My interview takes place over the course of 3 hours on one day. I don't have to plan for a number of different events. Since that is the case, would it be advised that I definitely wear a suit versus "business casual"...a pair of nice black pants and a sweater or button-down shirt?

    Any ideas?

    I want to make sure I am comfortable (which I am not really in a suit), however, I definitely do not want it to seem as though I don't care about my appearance or making a good impression.

    Nobody will be offended if you're not in a suit. I've been to three interviews and at none of them did I feel out of place in business casual rather than a suit (whereas there was at least one interview at which a suit was uncomfortably overdressed). That being said, it's really up to you. You won't make a bad impression either way, so it's really up to your own comfort and preference.

  10. I know for sure that some of my POIs have been talking to each other about my application, although I only know a bit of what they've talked about. Two of them are good friends with each other, and I've been told by both of them that they've already discussed it and decided that if I go to one of their departments, I can do some work in the other as well. One of those POIs has also been in touch with a prof at a third school to see if they'll be interviewing me. The weirdest one is that he's also made a deal with a fourth POI to let me do some work in her lab, and even cc-ed her on an email telling me about this deal. The thing that makes this strange is that this fourth POI's department rejected me less than a week before this email.

    I doubt that I'm an outlier on this, so yes, I think they do discuss applicants!

  11. To add some more data points to what was worn at the actual interviews, at my first visit lots of people were in suits (probably because an email from a grad student told us to dress "business"), but at my next visit it was really a mixed bag. I was in dress pants, a collared shirt, a black V-neck sweater, and boots. There were a couple people in full-on casual wear (jeans, leggings, etc), a couple in business-casual stuff, and one in a suit. I think the latter girl felt overdressed but everyone else seemed okay (although I'm glad I went a step up from jeans).

    I think a very safe rule (and what I'm planning to do for my other interviews) is business casual for actual interviews and whatever else happens that day, and jeans-with-slightly-nice-shirt for all other activities.

  12. I didn't take anything to my first interview. I'd actually bought a bottle of nice-ish local wine, but at the last minute I decided to fly carry-on only, so of course I couldn't take it. I don't think it was a problem at all, and I'm not planning on bringing a gift for my other interviews. Certainly, nobody brought a gift for the faculty they were meeting and I think it would have been strange had they done so.

  13. I believe some profs prob do take people that they knew previously. but i would think (or hope) they still look at other applicants. Why else would they pay to fly people out there for interviews? Am I really too naitve in trusting these programs to look at applicants' credentials??

    Some of those programs with a very small number of spots might be taking people they already know, but they don't all do that. I've been informally told that I'm pretty much accepted into a top Ivy League program that is taking 2-3 students this year, and I have no previous ties to the program or school. I didn't even email profs there until early December, and have never met any of them. And to add to that, I don't have a degree from a prestigious/Ivy League school. So it is definitely not naive to think that super competitive/small programs let in applicants they don't know!

  14. Interesting. Just an FYI: no Canadian Universities (to my reasonably extensive knowledge) require the GRE. Professional programs sometimes require the MCAT / GMAT / LSAT, but I haven't seen a research degree that requires it.

    That definitely depends on your field: in psych, every program I've looked at (which granted is not that many: U of T, Queen's, UBC, McGill) do require it

  15. See, I think this is the kind of feedback that is OK from a trusted professor, like one of your LORs, but I think it reflects poorly on the POI to launch into something like this. Even if they have your best interests in mind, how are we supposed to know the difference between that and game-playing?

    I found it fairly easy to tell the difference between this genuine warning and the jokey trash-talking that he did with the other schools. With other places, he mentioned things he thought were worse than his department, but also good things about them, and it was very light-hearted. With this one program, he was very clear: don't go there. He didn't tell me the specifics because he didn't want to be spreading rumors, but I've heard other rumors from professors that I've known longer, and all the negative talk seems to center on one program. If it was any more ambiguous, I would agree with you.

  16. Definitely. In some cases, when I've shared the name of the other institutions, the people I was talking with automatically knew (aka: assumed correctly) who I had applied to work with there. And some names were met with "Oh I know him really well!" followed by praise for their research and an occasional personal story. So yes, even though they are in competition for us, these are often their close colleagues and friends we're talking about. I agree that it probably demonstrates that an applicant took the application process seriously if she applied to work with people whose research is similar to that particular professor's program of research (not to say that having multiple areas of interest is a bad thing as long as there is some visible focus in your plan).

    Yeah this has happened to me as well. One of the profs correctly guessed who I would be working with at every other school I applied to (except 1, which was for a different project). He's friends with several of them, including his old PhD supervisor, so he gave me some details about them and kind of jokingly trash-talked them so I would be more inclined to go to his program. With one of the departments, he actually told me straight out not to go there - he didn't give me the exact reason, but he'd spoken to several students there who were trying to get out. While I know that his opinion is obviously biased, I really enjoyed hearing his take on the places I'm applying to. He also mentioned that my list of schools looked like I really knew what I wanted and I'd put some thought into where to apply. In that sense, I think asking about where else you're applying really does say something about how committed you are to your project and how much thought you've put into your applications.

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