Hey all, I'm a junior at a large state school; I transferred from a community college, and this is my second quarter at my current school. I never really went to office hours back at CC, and my first quarter here, it was the same way. You see, I'm a pretty shy person; plus I always found it more efficient to just use that time to study on my own. Now that I realize I need three LoRs for my grad school applications, I'm beginning to panic. Ideally, I would like to apply this fall, but I'm worried that it's a little late to start building relationships with my professors (at least the ones I think would make good LoR writers.)
This quarter is almost half over (week four of a ten-week course), and I didn't really go to office hours much. I'm going to change that, but how should I establish a relationship with my professor in a way that will get me solid LoRs? I know it sounds disingenuous--I guess, yeah, I have ulterior motives--but hey, requirements are requirements, and I need those letters. :\ Also, six weeks might not be a whole lot of time, so should I try to continue the relationship after the quarter is over to maybe increase my chances of getting a good letter? If so, how should I go about doing that? (This professor in particular is in the field that I want to go into; plus the class he's teaching is on related material, so I think he would make an great LoR.)
So basically, in a limited amount of time, how do I schmooze my way to solid LoRs with professors I'm not doing research with? And even if time weren't as much of a constraint (I suppose I could always apply fall after graduation), how do I schmooze anyways? I'm not the most social of people; so my schmoozing needs help regardless.
Thanks for any suggestions or comments! I'm quite the n00b, so thanks for bearing with me.